从安嘉和到蒋劲夫，关于性别暴力还有更多现实在聚光灯外……|Orange the world
那个对女友施暴的蒋劲夫自首了。
在他承认暴力行为一周后，也在今年联合国“消除性别暴力16日行动”开始三天后。
Chinese actor Jiang Jinfu was arrested by Japanese police after he admitted to abusing his Japanese girlfriend, reported the Global Times citing Tokyo Broadcasting System (TBS) on Wednesday.
Chinese actor Jiang Jinfu was arrested by Japanese police on November 28./ VCG Photo
11月20日，日本模特中浦悠花在Instagram上发布了一张自己满脸淤青的照片，称其男友中国演员蒋劲夫失踪多日，并指其与自己的伤势有关。仅数小时后，蒋劲夫发微薄承认了自己曾对女友施暴。
The 25-year-old Japanese model first accused Jiang of domestic violence via her Instagram account on November 20 with photos showing bruises on her face and neck. In response, Jiang also published a statement on Weibo, admitting to the accusation. He apologized to Nakaura for hurting her and his parents and friends for disappointing them.
The left is Jiang Jinfu's apology on his Weibo page, while the right is Haruka Nakaura's post on Instagram, which has now been deleted. /Screenshot via Weibo, Instagram
网友们在微博上对此事展开了的热烈讨论，话题“被男友打算不算家暴”曾一度被顶上热搜榜第七。在此前提下，从11月25日开始出现在社交网络上的几抹橙色就更不容忽视了——它们是每年联合国消除性别暴力16日行动的标志。
In China, Jiang's abuse scandal has been heavily debated on social media. And there have been several posts among the controversy have attracted public attention with their bright orange colors.
The UN Women called for “Orange the World” on Weibo./ Screenshot via Weibo
联合国将暴力侵害妇女和女童的行为称为当今世界上最普遍、最持久和最具破坏性的侵犯人权行为之一。为了对抗这些暴力，联合国早在1999年就通过了设立“国际消除对妇女暴力日”的决议。而联合国妇女署更是在2009年发起了“对暴力说不——团结起来”运动，将每个月的25日定为“橙色日”，鼓励人们穿戴橙色的衣饰以示对女性美好未来的支持。
每年11月的“橙色日”即国际消除对妇女暴力日，是消除性别暴力16日行动的开端，活动将持续至12月10日国际人权日。
As an international campaign to challenge violence against women and girls, 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence runs every year from November 25, the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, to December 10, the International Human Rights Day. Participants the world over are encouraged to use orange, the brighter and warm color, to stand for a world free from violence against women and girls.
相较于“家庭暴力”这一圈定了行为双方关系范围的定义，“性别暴力”的定义更广，牵涉的人群也更庞大。在联合国的定义里，它的表现形式包括：
According to the UN, forms of violence against women and girls (VAWG) include:
亲密伴侣暴力（殴打、心理虐待、婚内强奸、杀害女性）；
Intimate partner violence (battering, psychological abuse, marital rape, femicide);
暴力和性骚扰（强奸、强迫性行为、不受欢迎的性挑逗、儿童性虐待、强迫婚姻、街头骚扰、跟踪、网络骚扰）；
sexual violence and harassment (rape, forced sexual acts, unwanted sexual advances, child sexual abuse, forced marriage, street harassment, stalking, cyber- harassment);
人口贩运（奴役、性剥削）；
human trafficking (slavery, sexual exploitation);
切割女性生殖器；以及
female genital mutilation; and
童婚。
child marriage.
China's first TV series about domestic violence./ Screenshot via Weibo
对于很多国人来说，我们对此类暴力的最初印象来自17年前的那部《不要和陌生人说话》。由冯远征饰演的施暴者安嘉和成为了一代人的童年阴影，也让这位演员十多年来始终站在为抵制家暴发声的前线。然而在可以被看见的影视作品和演员明星之外，世界范围内性别暴力的现状远比大多数人能想象的严重得多。
VAWG figures./ Screenshot via the UN official website.
In reality, most victims of domestic violence do not call for help. According to the UN, less than 40 percent of women who suffer violence in most countries have sought help, and less than 10 percent have called the police.
而在中国，由于传统道德观念中部分糟粕的影响，诸如此类的情况常常更加严重。
In China, victims do not call the police until they have experienced an average of 35 domestic violence incidents, according to the Beijing News.
所幸，随着近年来国际社会对于女性权益越发重视，许多国家和地区都通过政府决策和民间行为表达了对性别暴力的抵制。
Fortunately, things are improving all around the world, including China.
A silhouette of a woman with her name and age seen painted on the ground remem bering the marks of a crime on November 25, 2018 in Catalonia, Spain./ VCG Photo
2015年底英国通过针对家庭暴力的新法案，通过社交媒体、网络等渠道监视和控制伴侣的行为也被列入了家暴范畴。
The UK passed new laws against domestic violence at the end of 2015. Monitoring and controlling partners through social media and internet has been included in the new laws.
2017年，一个由男性组成的倡导女性权益的组织“新男人联盟”出现在印度尼西亚。该组织的部分成员曾穿上迷你裙抗议该国政府官员声称“妇女要防止被骚扰就应避免穿迷你裙乘坐公共交通工具”的言论，并要求社会正视性骚扰问题的根源。
In 2017, a group of men called the New Men Alliance, which advocates for women's rights, appeared in Indonesia. Some members of the group have worn miniskirts to protest against government officials' claims that "women should avoid wearing miniskirts on public transport if they want to prevent harassment" and to address the root causes of sexual harassment.
A banner showed in a "White Ribbon" march on November 25, 2013 in Auckland, New Zealand./ VCG Photo
而起源于加拿大的“白丝带”运动鼓励男性佩戴白丝带，表示承诺绝不参与对妇女施行暴力，并且对针对妇女的暴力决不保持沉默。
The "White Ribbon" movement, which originated in Canada, encourages men to wear white ribbons as a symbol for promising never to engage in violence against women and never to remain silent about violence against women.
中国也在各方的努力下，逐步完善着反对性别暴力的相关法律。
Twenty-three years ago, the "Outline for the Development of Chinese Women (1995-2000)" issued by China's State Council explicitly used the concept of "domestic violence" for the first time.
On March 1, 2016, the six-chapter "Anti-Domestic Violence Law of the People's Republic of China" was officially implemented. /VCG Photo
On March 1, 2016, the six-chapter "Anti-Domestic Violence Law of the People's Republic of China" was officially implemented.
Not all victims of domestic violence resort to divorce. Many choose silence, tolerance, and hiding, but the "Anti-Domestic Violence Law" stipulates relative constraint and rules of protection, such as implementing a "Personal Safety Protective Order."
"只有占世界人口一半的妇女女童在生活中摆脱了恐惧、暴力和日常危险，我们才能真正实现公平和平等的世界。"——联合国秘书长安东尼奥·古特雷斯
“Not until the half of our population represented by women and girls can live free from fear, violence and everyday insecurity, can we truly say we live in a fair and equal world." — UN Secretary-General António Guterres
点亮橙色，我们仍在去往这个理想世界的路上。