你或许还没发现，自己正慢慢变成爸爸的样子丨You are becoming your dad
You always tell your friends how deeply you love your dad, but you rarely tell your father in person. You may sometimes want to express your feelings, but every time you face him, you just couldn't burst out that simple sentence — "I love you dad."
你总是在朋友面前说你有多爱你的爸爸，但却很少在爸爸面前说出口。或许你有时真的很想对他表达感情，可每当你走到他面前，却总是欲言又止。那句“爸爸，我爱你”就是无法说出口。
If you are also facing the above situation, you are not alone. Situations like this are very common in today's world.
如果你也在面对以上情况，你不是一个人。如今，这情况再正常不过了。
Fathers' love toward their kids seems to be a bit strict and tough, meanwhile, mothers' love seems to be loving and caring. But maybe that's the role fathers have to play to keep their kids in the right path.
比起母亲无微不至的关爱，父亲对孩子们的爱确实有一些严格。但或许是为了不让你走上歧途，父亲必须扮演这个角色。
When you asked your parents to praise your hard work with a reward, he (dad) would tell you to keep on making greater progress.
当你拿着辛苦工作的成果在父母面前邀功时，父亲总是让你再接再厉。
When you were relaxing, he would always interrupt your relaxing moment and say what you did wrong.
当你放松享受时，他总是打断你的美好兴致，告诉你哪儿做错了。
You knew your dad did those things for your own good, but you just couldn't get used to them.
你知道你爸这么做都是为了你好，可就是没办法适应他的做法。
You might sometimes even hate his behaviors, for you couldn't understand why he did them.
甚至有时你会讨厌他的一些所作所为，不明白他为什么要这样。
He never quitted the bad habit of smoking, and you hated him for it.
你总是对烟味嗤之以鼻，可他从不戒烟。
You were frustrated, when your dad sometimes came home late and missed the family dinner.
他有时很晚才到家，不能和一家人吃晚餐，对此你感到迷惑沮丧。
As his child, you felt you were not close to him, because he always had a strict face.
作为孩子，你觉得他很难亲近，因为他总是板着个脸。
You might not talk to him as you would like to.
就算你很想和他沟通，可你就是难以开口。
Even when you were knocking the door and he opened for you, you would always ask, "where is my mom?" as if your dad was invisible.
回家敲门时，如果是爸爸给你开的门，你总会问：“我妈呢？”就好像他隐形了一样。
Now you are away from home. Every time you call your family, the conversation with your dad is short and a bit awkward. Since you haven't had a close relationship with your dad, it is complicated to keep up an interesting conversation with him.
现在你离家在外。每次给家里打电话时，和爸爸的对话总是很快就结束了，还有一些尴尬。因为你和爸爸的关系好像不那么亲近，你们的对话总是很无趣。
You may gradually find out that you are becoming just like your dad was. You may do exactly the same things he has done.
你也许逐渐发现你在慢慢变成爸爸的样子。你也许也在重蹈他的覆辙。
You smoke when you are stressed out. You always work overtime, and for most family dinners you're unable to make it home early. Your face is growing round just like your dad's. You don't like to smile or laugh, because you want to hide your wrinkles and look a bit younger.
承受不住压力时你会吸烟。你总是加班，很少赶上家庭晚餐。你的脸慢慢变圆，就像爸爸的脸型一样。你总是不苟言笑，因为你想藏起皱纹，让自己看起来能稍微年轻那么一点。
You may have children, and need to act as a parent. Now, you do understand your dad's "strict face" and "behaviors". But still, your love for your dad is paradoxical.
也许你已经有了孩子，不得不表现出一家之长的样子。现在你终于懂得了你父亲板着的脸和那些所作所为背后发生的一切。但你对爸爸的爱依然复杂。
Today is Father's Day and we are giving you the platform to express your love for your dad. Or maybe your father is quite different from the ones above. Why not share with us the different stories between you and him?
今天是父亲节，CD君为你提供了这个平台，让你能够表达对父亲说不出口的爱。或许你的父亲和上面的“父亲”不是同款，也请与我们分享你与他不一样的故事吧。
Last but not the least: Happy Father's Day to all fathers in the world!
可别忘了最重要的事儿——祝全天下的父亲：父亲节快乐！
编辑：张曦
实习生：沈哲远
Why is it harder to make friends as we age?
CD君先来：爸爸我爱你！！！ ❤