We've all been there—you've sent a message and it's marked "read", but you haven't heard anything back. What's the deal?
Rbomb: to read a message, and not respond, or ignore, usually with intention.
“已读不回”很常见,机智应对要学会。为了避免社交软件影响到你的三次元生活,不妨学学下面这几招:
以善意度人
Expect the best
Remind yourself that the person is probably just busy. Ask yourself if you actually know their schedule. There could be some time commitments you aren't aware of. Here are a few other reasons for a delayed response: · They want to give you a longer response but can't right now. · They put their phone away to focus on work or school. · They accidentally forgot to reply. Maybe they thought about what they wanted to say but didn't actually text it.
Give them a little space so they have a chance to reply. If you send a lot of follow-up texts, it'll be hard for them to keep up and they might get overwhelmed. Leave them with just one text to catch up on—the other person will probably appreciate your patience.
审视发过的消息
Read over your previous messages
See if there are any confusing texts that you need to clarify. It's okay if you review your message again and notice that it might've been a little vague—it happens! You might feel relieved because you found something that was easy to misread.
放下手机
Put your phone away
眼不见,心不烦。与其纠结为什么会被“已读不回”,不如放下手机,做些更有意义的事。
Keep it out of sight and get some peace of mind. Don't let it frustrate or confuse you. If you get your mind off any notifications, you'll be able to brainstorm new ways to spend your time.
A: Did you read the document I gave you?
给你的文件看了吗?
B: TL;DR.
太长了,没看。
编辑:陈月华
实习生:王安然
来源:果壳 WikiHow Hopenglish
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