最好的心态是经历沧桑后的豁然开朗

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最好的心态是经历沧桑后的豁然开朗原创

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不和时间赛跑

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1、不和时间赛跑

一眨眼又一年过去了，真是太快了。年复一年，岁月飞逝，人不由得会产生分秒必争的紧迫心情。然而，我的原则是不和时间赛跑。时间分秒不停地在走，人怎么跑得赢时间呢，跑赢了岂不要累死，累死了也不知何所图。管它时间走得多

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font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p style="text-indent: 28px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"></span></p><section class="_135editor" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89122" style="border: 0px none; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 10px auto; border: 0px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; display: inline-block; text-align: left; height: 60px; background-image: url("http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/E2U9jJPktQg432m45H4gHWZxAZA2tsUTyicQz7q0Wzd5OpL9Axon3iaADYwPpZWr3cL81RDYicVUE1tRqnFCvM0vA/0?wx_fmt=png"); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background-size: auto 60px; background-repeat: no-repeat;"><section style="margin-left: 25px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 10px; display: inline-block; line-height: 66px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); vertical-align: top; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box;"><p class="135brush" data-brushtype="text" style="border: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">1、不和时间赛跑</span></p></section></section><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; display: inline-block; text-align: left; width: 6px; height: 60px; vertical-align: top; background-image: url("http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/E2U9jJPktQg432m45H4gHWZxAZA2tsUT5ATibf4KRw0FXYHQJWjCwdDtugE08VDebward0902R2Q4TP8kicia1cUA/0?wx_fmt=png"); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background-size: auto 60px; background-repeat: no-repeat;"></section></section></section><p style="text-indent: 28px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;">一眨眼又一年过去了，真是太快了。年复一年，岁月飞逝，人不由得会产生分秒必争的紧迫心情。然而，我的原则是不和时间赛跑。时间分秒不停地在走，人怎么跑得赢时间呢，跑赢了岂不要累死，累死了也不知何所图。管它时间走得多么快，我就慢慢地走，按照自己觉得舒服的节奏走，享受每一个当下，欣赏沿途的风景。我不理睬时间，就当它不存在，静心做事情，安心过日子。我不向时间争分夺秒，不让我的人生成为争分夺秒的战场，这反而使得我的每一个当下都完好无损。</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/E2U9jJPktQg432m45H4gHWZxAZA2tsUTTicxNuDQoxz7R4Eb1H3TWLPlb0TxJMQN35rl6gEU4wUaowbdlE3g4EQ/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" class="" data-ratio="1.25177304964539" data-w="564" /></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"></span><br /></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p style="text-indent: 28px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"></span></p><section class="_135editor" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89122" style="border: 0px none; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 10px auto; border: 0px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; display: inline-block; text-align: left; height: 60px; background-image: url("http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/E2U9jJPktQg432m45H4gHWZxAZA2tsUTyicQz7q0Wzd5OpL9Axon3iaADYwPpZWr3cL81RDYicVUE1tRqnFCvM0vA/0?wx_fmt=png"); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background-size: auto 60px; background-repeat: no-repeat;"><section style="margin-left: 25px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 10px; display: inline-block; line-height: 66px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); vertical-align: top; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box;"><p class="135brush" data-brushtype="text" style="border: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">2、年龄·心态·觉悟</span></p></section></section><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; display: inline-block; text-align: left; width: 6px; height: 60px; vertical-align: top; background-image: url("http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/E2U9jJPktQg432m45H4gHWZxAZA2tsUT5ATibf4KRw0FXYHQJWjCwdDtugE08VDebward0902R2Q4TP8kicia1cUA/0?wx_fmt=png"); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background-size: auto 60px; background-repeat: no-repeat;"></section></section></section><p style="text-indent: 28px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;">忽然想到了我的年龄。即使在老龄标准大大推迟的今天，我也不能赖在中老年交界的碑石前誓不挪步了。心态多么年轻，也阻挡不了时间加速度的步伐，曾经觉得非常遥远的半百、花甲，一眨眼已经都落在了身后。岁月无情，人生易老，对此真是无话可说。</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;">然而，好的心态仍是重要的。这个好的心态，不是傻乐，不是装嫩，而是历经沧桑之后的豁然开朗。我体会到，人过中年以后，应该逐步建立两方面的觉悟，一方面是与人生必有的缺陷达成和解，另一方面是对人生根本的价值懂得珍惜。有了这两方面的觉悟，就会有好的心态。</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/E2U9jJPktQg432m45H4gHWZxAZA2tsUTCLkfLCMfbspZcicJdWxakibcP2EUmf3QFUK91xxMpwia20gcqcZ4IIeDQ/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" class="" data-ratio="0.8297872340425532" data-w="564" /></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"></span><br /></p><p style="text-indent: 28px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"></span></p><section class="_135editor" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89122" style="border: 0px none; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 10px auto; border: 0px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; display: inline-block; text-align: left; height: 60px; background-image: url("http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/E2U9jJPktQg432m45H4gHWZxAZA2tsUTyicQz7q0Wzd5OpL9Axon3iaADYwPpZWr3cL81RDYicVUE1tRqnFCvM0vA/0?wx_fmt=png"); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background-size: auto 60px; background-repeat: no-repeat;"><section style="margin-left: 25px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 10px; display: inline-block; line-height: 66px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); vertical-align: top; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box;"><p class="135brush" data-brushtype="text" style="border: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">3、观赏自己的年龄风景</span></p></section></section><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; display: inline-block; text-align: left; width: 6px; height: 60px; vertical-align: top; background-image: url("http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/E2U9jJPktQg432m45H4gHWZxAZA2tsUT5ATibf4KRw0FXYHQJWjCwdDtugE08VDebward0902R2Q4TP8kicia1cUA/0?wx_fmt=png"); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background-size: auto 60px; background-repeat: no-repeat;"></section></section></section><p style="text-indent: 28px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;">人生不同的年龄阶段，会有不同的风景。年幼的时候，我们沉浸在风景里，和风景是一体，自己还不会观赏，观赏者是父母和他人。长大以后，我们或多或少会观赏自己的年龄风景了，看自己青春的浪漫和寂寞，看自己壮年的成熟和努力。然后，老年来临了，好吧，让我们站在躯壳之外，笑看自己满头华发，满脸皱纹，脚步蹒跚，心情平和，恬然观赏自己人生的最后一道风景。</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/E2U9jJPktQg432m45H4gHWZxAZA2tsUTvgAacT9nLodRgu2JDVdXGYdMZ6qtGwyktkS81T9GicZ6qicIZTYAhN3w/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" class="" data-ratio="1.0159574468085106" data-w="564" /></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"></span><br /></p><p style="text-indent: 28px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"></span></p><section class="_135editor" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89122" style="border: 0px none; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 10px auto; border: 0px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; display: inline-block; text-align: left; height: 60px; background-image: url("http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/E2U9jJPktQg432m45H4gHWZxAZA2tsUTyicQz7q0Wzd5OpL9Axon3iaADYwPpZWr3cL81RDYicVUE1tRqnFCvM0vA/0?wx_fmt=png"); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); 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font-size: 16px;">我突然想明白了一个道理：人生真正重要的不是目标，而是状态，只要状态是好的，就不必在目标问题上追根究底了，或者就可以说目标是对的。目标的价值不在理论上，而在实践上，就是为了让你的人生有一个好的状态。</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/E2U9jJPktQg432m45H4gHWZxAZA2tsUTnTeggLqhHc8CNzl70YuKg16MsON6lVYuT0vllnvoOsTZXXPI3BOjsA/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" class="" data-ratio="0.8049645390070922" data-w="564" /></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"></span><br /></p><p style="text-indent: 28px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"></span></p><section class="_135editor" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89122" style="border: 0px none; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 10px auto; border: 0px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; display: inline-block; text-align: left; height: 60px; background-image: url("http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/E2U9jJPktQg432m45H4gHWZxAZA2tsUTyicQz7q0Wzd5OpL9Axon3iaADYwPpZWr3cL81RDYicVUE1tRqnFCvM0vA/0?wx_fmt=png"); 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