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/></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">(02)</strong><br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">人生需要两种能力:</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">一是具体问题,具体分析。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">二是全面的看问题。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">这两种能力,各有其适用范围。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">如果弄错,就会稀哩糊涂。该具体分析时,非要全面的看,把简单的问题,搅和成了一锅粥。该全面看问题时,非要揪住枝节不放,认死理钻牛角尖,让人生变成碰碰车,碰到稀烂。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">(03)</strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">有部韩国电影《熔炉》。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">演个年轻人,到家聋哑学校做教师。<span style="text-align: center;">&nbsp;</span></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;overflow: hidden !important;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section><p><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.8" data-s="300,640" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/mK7O5Q4x9viccf53gd88URQzpwY0UOknAB2Y6dp6uVhg9c0AVoKUI6D7icTkk3NE5RGRohXzgzcn2oTY1KfiaxYSg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="600" style="" /></p><section class="" style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160);font-size: 14px;">韩国电影《熔炉》</span><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;overflow: hidden !important;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="margin: 15px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;line-height: 2;padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">然鹅,他在学校里看到恐怖的一幕。残疾孩子,遭到校长与老师的伤害侵犯,孩子身心遭受重创,有的孩子甚至被逼自杀。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">许多人都知道这些令人发指的恶行——但所有人,或是置若惘闻,或是干脆同流合污。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">男主角迫于生存,起初也打算向恶势力低头。可是对孩子的爱,与内心的良知,让他勇敢的站出来,带着孩子报案揭发。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">黑盖子被掀开后,第一批站出来的人,是你绝对意想不到的人:</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">——是伙信徒!</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">——他们力挺老师和校长,因为校长给他们的教派有捐款。所以他们努力告诉男主角:要全面的看问题哦。你看人家校长多好,慈眉善目滴,怎么可能是坏人涅?你心里有什么,就看到什么。你内心阴暗,看谁都坏蛋。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">上了法庭,男主角和孩子们经历了炼狱般的煎熬,出示了所有的证据,证明了事情的真实性。证据表明,校长不仅是个侵犯者,甚至还变态的保留了录相,以供自己欣赏。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">铁证如山,伤害者再也无从狡辩。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">就等法官裁决。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="margin: 15px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;line-height: 2;padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">(04)</strong><br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">法官站起来:嗯,那啥,大家要学会全面的看问题。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">校长虽然有点小错误,但本质不赖嘛。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">校长是个好变态。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">所以呢,尽管有这么多证据……那啥,这事儿咱就不追究辣,校长象征性的判几个月劳役,再缓期两年,不用坐牢。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">谁敢不服?判他个邈视法庭罪,当场抓起来!</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">侵犯者兴高采烈,跳到台上振臂高呼:正义必剩!</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">男主角绝望而震惊。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">同伴对男猪说:我们一路奋战,不是为了改变世界。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">——而是为了不让世界改变我们!</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;overflow: hidden !important;box-sizing: border-box;"><img data-ratio="0.6229803" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/mK7O5Q4x9viccf53gd88URQzpwY0UOknAGMNCicicSxFuZJBJDfvKK5PcILVhn7OhicgblBnBibs7t56dVAWsmOibQqQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="557" 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normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">相反,他会冠冕堂皇的说:要全面的看问题哦,校长虽然伤害了几个小盆友,但人家是个满腔正义的慈善人士。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">——他在具体事件上,生拉硬扯进了毫不相关的因素。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">——并把胡搅蛮缠,说成了全面看问题。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">最终颠倒黑白。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">如果我们不能够厘析什么叫全面看问题,什么又叫具体问题具体分析,那么我们就有可能成为《熔炉》片中法官一类的角色,明明昧却良知,助纣为虐,却偏偏文过饰非。如这样善恶不辨是非不分的脑子到了现实中,生存就会变得异常艰难。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">(06)</strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">有人颠倒黑白、混淆是非不奇怪。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">——可为什么他们能够得逞?</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">有个蠢孩子,正在门口发呆。父亲扛着梯子过来:儿咂,家里的太阳能热水器坏鸟,爹要上房修理,你在这儿看着梯子。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">——父亲的意思,是让儿子看着梯子,别被人挪走,以免自己下不来。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">好嘞。儿子答应一声,坐在门槛上,两眼直勾勾的盯着梯子。这时候小伙伴来了,招呼他去玩。他说父亲吩咐他看梯子。小伙伴惊诧的说:你傻不傻?怕梯子丢了,扛回院子里不就得了,干吗呆在这里看?</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">蠢孩子一想,有道理呀,我怎么没想到涅?当即把梯子扛回院子,和小伙伴跑掉玩去了。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">……猜猜等这蠢孩子回来,会不会被亲爹打死?</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">还有个孩子,吃饭时掉地上的米粒,一律捡起来再吃。爹妈担心他吃到脏东西,就告诉他:孩子,掉地下的食物,就不要再用手捡起来吃了。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">哦。聪明的孩子记住了。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">下次又掉了粒米,孩子立即趴在地上,伸出舌头在地面一通狂舔,成功的把米粒舔进嘴里。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">然后孩子欢天喜地的报告:粑粑麻麻,这次我没有用手捡哦,要不要奖励我?</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">奖励你……个毛线!</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">孩纸,你再这样蠢萌,迟早有一天会把自己萌死滴!</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;overflow: hidden !important;box-sizing: border-box;"><img data-ratio="1" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/mK7O5Q4x9viccf53gd88URQzpwY0UOknAUNRvx05M9JTTQAUzkjrnibAC0NiaahXNER7enn8SCJUpl80lMdW7opkg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="580" style="vertical-align: middle;box-sizing: border-box;width: 390px;height: 390px;" /></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="margin: 15px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;line-height: 2;padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: center;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">(07)</strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">把梯子扛回院子里的孩子,为什么会挨揍?</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">用舌头舔吃掉地上的米粒,为什么爹妈嫌弃他蠢?</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">——因为,父亲让儿子看梯子,不是怕梯子丢,而是别让人家把梯子扛走,自己在屋顶上下不来!</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">——不让孩子用手捡地下的食物,不是说让他用舌头舔,而是掉地下的食物沾上了污物,不干净、不可以食用了。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">而这两个孩子的表现,都是属于——没有把握住事物的本质!</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">(08)</strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">我们都是从蠢孩子长大,亲爹上房你抽梯,这类事儿没少干。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">是以成长时年,家长耳提面命:傻宝,你听好辣:</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">具体问题,具体分析,是让你抓住事物本质,不要把不相干的事儿硬扯进来。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">全面的看问题,仍然是要抓住事物本质,不可偏离。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">是否就事论事,不重要。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">是否全面客观,也不重要的。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">——重要的是准确抓住本质!</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">所以孔子的弟子有子说:有些人,书没读多少,字也认不多,可是他们遇事时敏悟聪慧,能够把握本质。这类人纵不读书,我们也称之为有学问。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">另外一些人,读书破万卷,离题超万里。这类人读书再多,也跟学问没关系。</p><p style="text-align: center;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;width: 70%;overflow: hidden !important;box-sizing: border-box;"><img data-ratio="1" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/mK7O5Q4x9viccf53gd88URQzpwY0UOknAWgkWTZPoOtCxryeXQQaBZVMSE7oqc1FXxVRdZ0g5OPsm92MyB7icekw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="200" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 390px;box-sizing: border-box;height: 390px;" width="100%" /></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="margin: 15px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;line-height: 2;padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br /></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">(09)</strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">世间有五种事,需要片面的看。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">还有五种事儿,需要全面的看。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">第一:坏事儿要片面的看,好事要全面的看。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">有人捅了你一刀,这时候有人跑来,说你要全面看问题哦。人家虽然有捅你,可他是孝子,他做过好事儿——可他哪怕是万家生佛,你该流血也要流血,坏事必须就事论事,只论原因与结果,其它任何事儿搅进来,都是搅混水。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">你在网上认识个萌妹子,约你到酒吧嗨皮。你最好查一下这家酒吧,是不是请了一大堆酒托,去了后宰得你皮毛不剩。这叫好事要全面的看,不能跟鱼一样,见饵就咬。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">第二:只涉及自己的事儿,要片面的看。涉及到别人就要全面的看。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">比如说你工作出错被责怪,你愤怒的说:错的又不是我一个人,凭什么单说我?</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">你的错,责任就在你。别人有错不是你犯错的理由,这叫具体问题具体分析。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">相反,你出于好心,为朋友办事,事先得问清楚人家需要不需要。如果人家压根不需要,你非说我是为你好,这叫多事。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">第三:做事时,就事论事。论理时,需要全面。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">做事是实践能力,实践有明确的目标,必须围绕着目标而行,不可扩大,不可弄差。这就叫就事论事。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">理论能力,是一眼洞穿关键要素与本质的能力,当然不能片面疏失。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">第四:情绪的事儿,越片面越好。非情绪化的事儿,需要全面。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">我们常说事情,事情。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">事情,由事和情构成。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">事可以究底,有规律有法则有道理——但情绪这玩艺儿,却是丝毫也不认道理的。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">人生最容易犯的错误,一是和情绪化的人讲道理,二是带着情绪讲自己所谓的道理。不犯这两种错误,人生少一半的麻烦。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">第五:长远的目标,越片面越好,这叫专注。眼前的事儿,越全面越好,这叫缜密。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">那些迷茫的人,多是眼前的事儿片面,长远的事儿全面,结果是眼前把握不住,未来沦为空想。只要调整过来,一切就会OK。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">(10)</strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">人生不过是:事,情,理这么三个要素。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">有事必有情,有情却未必有事。所以情大于事儿。这是处世的第一法则。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">情不讲理,达理的前提是通情,所以情也大于理,这是处世的第二法则。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 16, 16);box-sizing: border-box;">通情者达理,达理者无是非之事,这是我们要记住的第三条法则。</span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">这三个法则,能奉行一个,人生的麻烦就会少33.3%。能奉行两个,麻烦就会少66.6%。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">三个全能够奉行,就会行无逾矩,率性而为。只因你每一步都踏在规律的节拍上,断不会有人挡你的路。</p><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: 12%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;text-align: 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