Rethinking open relationship, The Ethical Slut author interview
What do you think about open relationship?What if there's another narrative?Three questions about open relationships Is an open relationship the same as fooling around?不，它首先得是一段关系，是一段双方都明确认同的恋爱关系。“开放性”表现为在该一对一关系之上，接受第三者的介入，通常与性有关。但开放关系的双方，不是炮友，它们核心区别是，参与者之间有爱做纽带。No. First and foremost, an open relationship has to be a love relationship and it values consent. The only difference to an exclusive one lies in its sexual non-monogamy. The "openness" usually relates to sex, which is about inviting the third party into your relationship. An open relationship isn't a one-night-stand. It's a love relationship, so the love for each other is the primary bound for all of the participants.Being in an open relationship means simply doing whatever I want, whenever I want, with whomever I want?
恰恰相反，开放关系中的规则和承诺不比一对一少。为了不伤害所爱之人，我们需要更用心建立和维护和参与者的关系, 要保证公平、开放, 且时刻确保双方都保持同步。不伤害所爱之人是开放关系中所有事情的前提，因为当他们受伤，我们也会难过。In the country, rules and boundaries are set off clearly in open relationships. You need to treat people well and not hurt anyone, to remain open and fair, and ensure that you and your partners are on the same page. Thus, it is not okay with us to hurt other people because then we hurt too.Is an open relationship right for me?在你和伴侣决定走入开放关系之前，你们必须经历对亲密，信任，坦诚，嫉妒，安全感的灵魂拷问。
Before entering an open relationship, I have to ask you several questions.· Do you have a relationship built on a solid foundation of honesty and trust?· Do you and your partner have different sexual needs and/or orientations?· Are you able to openly communicate with your partner?· Are you able to handle jealousy in a healthy manner?· How good is your time management and emotion management?如果你不知道如何回答这些问题，下周日，有两位年届古稀的“浪女”，想跟你谈谈开放关系这件事儿。If don’t have an answer, come to this online interview next Sunday. You’ll hear the narrative of open relationships by two "sluts" in their 70's.
Janet W. Hardy
开放关系、跨性别领域作家、教育家、演讲家。她也是开放关系践行者，目前她和配偶居住在美国俄勒冈州。
Janet W. Hardy has traveled the world sharing the knowledge she has gained through a life as a polyamorous bisexual genderqueer. Janet lives in Eugene, Oregon, with her spouse and pets.
Dossie Easton
美国作家、性学家、性教育家。她是多个性教育大会和高校讲座的常驻演讲嘉宾。同时，她也是开放关系践行者。目前，她住在美国加州。
Dossie Easton has been a plenary or keynote speaker at many conferences and many colleges. She is polyamorous and lives in California.
两人于上世纪90年代作书《道德浪女》，被誉为开放关系圣经。如今再版至第三版。其中介绍的亲密关系里的沟通、界限、交流的方式，无论对于一对一关系还是开放关系都同样适用。They worked together on the groundbreaking bestseller The Ethical Slut.The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love吕安琪
吕安琪不仅是业界罕见的双母语译者，还是一名优秀的译者训练员。她目前是布鲁塞尔联合国、欧盟地区的自由翻译。她的翻译工作得到了相关机构的高度认可。
Anchi is not only one of the rare double A English/Mandarin interpreters in the world, she is also an outstanding interpreter trainer. Anchi is currently a freelance interpreter in the Brussels region and is accredited with the EU and the UN.
William White
白威廉是在中国非常有影响力的口译工作者之一，从事中、英、法三种语言的同声传译。白威廉是布鲁塞尔人，在英语家庭中长大，1998年移居北京。
William White is one of the leading interpreters in China. He works between Chinese, English and French. A native of Brussels from an Anglophone family, he first moved to Beijing in 1998.
For more information or enrollment, scan the QR code in the poster or click “read more”多枝生活社的建立，是希望邀请更多人开拓一种酷儿的生活方式，创造联结。我们关注人的生命发展，重视每位伙伴的独立性与主体性，鼓励更多人拓宽自己生命的广度，去体验生活的无限可能。我们希望在第一期活动就看见你！The Juicy Community gives young people alternatives in life. We focus on your whole-person development and we encourage your independence and subjectivity. Hope to see you at our first meeting!婊酱Bitch Up: 可能是中文世界最好的聊性播客。