巴夏：“应该”与“可能”
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Good day
日安！
巴夏：
And to you good day
你好，日安！
问：
So I've recently been exploring the ideas of creating art
最近我在研究（探索）艺术的创作
巴夏：
Yes
好的
问：
And I think one of the thing that really helps me
我觉得其中一个对我很有帮助的是：
Was to get over that hurdle that fear was that art is a gift to something that needs to be given without the expectation of reciprocity
我跨过了“艺术应该是不求回报，大方地给出去的礼物”这个恐惧的障碍
巴夏：
Yes
好！
It is
要知道
Excitement
兴奋
And you do excitement for its own sake.
你是为了“兴奋”本身而行动
Because you have no other choice
因为你没有其他选择
Because it is you
因为它（兴奋）就是你
But there will be some degree of reciprocity if you do it without the need for there to be
但如果你不求回报去行动，那肯定会有一定程度的回报
问：
Yes, without the expectation
是的，不带预期心态
And you're not attaching, I'm not attaching to whatever that reciprocity might be
我不（该）执着于任何形式的的回报
巴夏：
Yes
是的
Because you see
因为，你要知道
here's the real trick of this in the understanding is
我要说的是，理解这个要点的真正诀窍
While many of you think
你们很多人都认为：
the reciprocity is representative of things going the way they ought to
做事情，就应该依照互惠互利的原则进行（意译）
互惠互利代表着事情理应进行的方式（直译）
In many cases,
但很多情况是
the expectation of the reciprocity is actually a limitation on what could be happening
对回报的期待，反而成了可能发生的事情的一种限制
Something greater could be happening than what you expect should be happening.
因为，可能会发生比你预期的“应该发生的”更棒的事情
So when you understand that if you have a SHOULD be happening
所以，当你明白：你所认为的“应该发生的事”
That that's actually limiting you from what COULD be happening,
其实是对“可能发生”的更美好的结果的一种限制
You will start to drop a SHOULD
那你将开始放下“应该”发生
And let the COULD happen
并允许“可能”到来
Yes?
明白吗？
问：
Yes
明白！
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