Pornhub发布“色情片10年热搜词演变”,我们(居然)看出了社会的这3点进步——
在2022年中,“现实(Reality)”一词的搜索量较上一年增长了 169 %;与之相关联的搜索词里,最受欢迎的为“真实高潮(real orgasm)”“真实情侣(real couple)”和“真实按摩(real massage)”。
“跨性别色情片(transgender)”的搜索量增长了 75 %,其中,“FTM”(跨性别男性)的搜索热度是“MTF”(跨性别女性)的8倍;而在 PornhubGay 的访问者中,“FTM”(跨性别男性)的搜索量增长了 202 %。搜索量最多的性别认同词为“非二元性别(non binary)”“X性别(gender X)”和“双性(androgynous)”。
2022年,“女性主导(femdom)”和“女性崇拜(female domination)”的搜索增长了 28 %,“pegging”和“捆绑(strapon)”成为了今年最热门的搜索词之一。
展现出真正的性愉悦——而不是被演员演绎出的机械“性高潮表演”。
更加包容,能够展示不同的身材、种族、年龄和性能力——而不是仅采用面容精致、身材优异的“美人”作为性行为参与者。
一切的行为都在性同意的基础上完成,在安全并且互相尊重的环境下完成表演——而不存在强制、偷拍等不道德元素。
更加考虑女性观众的感受,不物化女性形象,同时也能展现更真实的性器官形态,缓解两性对彼此身体的性焦虑。
做好自我性教育。区分现实和porn中所虚构的性,增进性同意等概念的理解。 对色情制品中的性价值观进行充分觉察。主动去分辨你所看到的内容在现实层面中包含怎样的性价值观?并不为自己的真实觉察感到羞耻。
从自身做起,尽量避免传播、消费不道德色情内容。不去主动传播偷拍影像等不道德色情内容,同时呼吁身边人不再继续传播。
“性的光谱涵盖了暴力到交欢的种种层次,爱的光谱也涵盖了控制到自我牺牲的种种层次。无论是性还是爱,都完全不需要理想化。但你若想在有限的人生中,将时间和精力等有限资源用到极致,体验高质量的性和高质量的恋爱,肯定比不体验要好。”
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