The year was 1995 and my family had just moved from China to California. We were determined to learn the American culture, so when the end of the year rolled around it meant time to decorate and buy all the stuff we’ve only seen in holiday movies. We got the tree even though the idea of cutting down a perfectly good tree just to bring it indoors to wilt didn’t make sense. In China, our indoor trees were potted and alive. A wreath on the door also seemed odd. Funerals in China always have wreaths and my seven-year-old brain associated them with death, but our neighbor explained that in American they did not mean there was a death in the family, so we got over that too. We drank the holiday drink with the unappealing name that turned out to be delicious — eggnog, who would have thought drinking raw eggs would be good? And we ate something delightful called stuffing that turned out to be bread that was cooked inside a turkey’s rear end. Seriously, if you didn’t grow up with these traditional foods, they’re absurd for a first-timer.
When the second year rolled around, my mom had had it with sticking to traditions. The ceremonial Christmas tree turned into “just put lights on the potted plants” and drinking eggnog turned into “get cranberry juice, but be sure to water it down because you don’t need to drink that much sugar.” We had tried the American holiday traditions, and now it was time to adapt them to fit our lifestyle.
Fast forward a little over a decade later, to life in Beijing.
Every year when the holiday season rolls around I look on social media, see the over-the-top festivities of my friends, and can’t help but feel a bit down at my own lack of Christmas cheer.
But you can’t just stroll to any old mall parking lot and pick up a tree here. So how do we keep the holiday spirit alive, especially this year when the pandemic has added even bigger hurdles for us?
Like with schools, holiday concerts, and gatherings, this holiday season is all about infusing virtual attendance into our everyday habits. “Last year we went back to the US in late December to celebrate the holidays, which for us is both Hanukah and Christmas, and to spend time with our family on the West coast. We usually split our years between the West coast and the East. This year, because of COVID-19 we cannot travel, so it was just time spent on Skype and Zoom with different family members,” Mical G and Anna M, parents to two-year-old Oliver, tell beijingkids.
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