Want others to succeed vs. Secretly hope others fail
希望他人成功 vs. 暗地里希望他人失败
When you’re in an organization with a group of people, in order to be successful, you all have to be successful.
和一群人在一家公司工作的时候，你要想成功，那么所有人都必须成功。
We need to want to see our co-workers succeed and grow.
我们应该希望看到自己同事的成功和进步。
If you wish for their demise, why even work with them at all?
如果你希望他们失败，那还为什么要和他们一起工作呢？
Accept responsibly for your failures
vs.
Blame others for your failures
勇于承担失败的责任 vs. 因失败抱怨他人
Where there are ups, there are most always downs.
人生总是充满起起落落。
Being a leader and successful businessperson means always having to accept responsibility for your failures.
作为一个领导者和一名成功的商业人士要勇于承担失败的责任。
Blaming others solves nothing; it just puts other people down and absolutely no good comes from it.
埋怨他人于事无补，只会让别人感到难堪，抱怨绝不会有任何好处。
Talk about ideas vs. Talk about people
谈论想法 vs. 谈论他人
What did we all learn in high school?
我们在高中都学会了什么？
Gossip gets you nowhere.
八卦不会给你带来任何好处。
Instead of gossiping about people, successful people talk about ideas.
成功人士在一起会谈论自己的想法而不是八卦他人。
Sharing ideas with others will only make them better.
彼此交换想法只会让他们变的更好。
Set goals and life plans
vs.
Do not set goals
确立目标和人生计划 vs. 没有目标
You can't possibly be successful without knowing where you're going in life.
生活中，如果你不知道自己要往哪里前进，那么你也不会成功。
A life vision board, 10 year plan, 3 year forecast, annual strategic plan, and daily goal lists are useful tools of the mega-successful people.
人生规划，10年规划，3年预期，每年的策略性计划以及每天的目标列表对于成功人士都是很有用的工具。
Get your vision and goals down on paper!
将自己的规划和目标写在纸上。
Keep a journal
vs.
Say you keep a journal but don’t
写日记 vs. 说自己要写日记但从来没写过
Keeping a journal is a great way to jot down quick ideas or thoughts.
写日记是一个很好的方法来快速地记下自己的想法。
Writing them down can lead to something even greater.
记下这些想法会创造出更伟大的东西。
You can even use mobile apps or your Notes function in your phone.
你甚至可以使用手机的应用程序或者手机里的便签功能来写日记。
But don’t fool yourself by saying you keep a journal and not following through.
但是不要欺骗自己，说要写日记但从来没有执行过。
Read every day vs. Watch TV every day
每天读书 vs. 每天看电视
Reading every day educates you on new subjects.
每天的阅读可以让你接触不同的内容。
Whether you are reading a blog, your favorite magazine or a good book, you can learn and become more knowledgeable as you read.
不论是读一篇博客，自己最喜欢的杂志还是一本好书，你都会学到东西，变的更加博学。
Watching television, on the other hand, may be good entertainment or an escape, but you'll rarely get anything out of TV to help you become more successful.
相反，看电视也许是很好的娱乐方式或者说是一种很好的逃避方式，但是要想成功，电视节目益处很少。
Continuously learn
vs.
Fly by the seat of your pants
不断学习 vs. 三分钟热度
Continuously learning and improving is the only way to grow.
不断的学习和进步是唯一的成长方式。
You can be a step above your competition and become more flexible because you know more.
因为知道更多，自己就可以在竞争中掌握先机，也会更加游刃有余。
If you just fly by the seat of your pants, you could be passing up opportunities that prevent you from learning (and growing!)
如果做事总是三分钟热度，你就会错失很多机会，妨碍自己的学习和进步。
Forgive others vs. Hold a grudge
原谅他人 vs. 不断抱怨
Everybody makes mistakes; it’s human.
每个人都会犯错，这是不可避免的。
The only way to get past the mistake is to forgive and move on.
唯一解决错误的方式就是原谅，然后继续前进。
Dwelling on anger only makes things worse - for you.
对自己而言，老是生气只会让事情变得更糟。
Keep a “To-Be” list
vs.
Don’t know what you want to be
拥有梦想 vs. 前路迷茫
A “To-Be” list is a great way to strategize for the future.
一份“梦想”列表是很好的未来规划。
I want to be an elected official one day.
终有一天，我要成为一名官员。
I want to be a TED speaker.
我想要成为一名TED演讲者。
I want to be the CEO of a public company.
我想要成为一家上市公司的CEO。
I want to be a great father and husband.
我想要成为一个伟大的父亲和丈夫。
Unsuccessful people have no idea what they want to be.
平庸的人不知道他们想要成为什么。
If you don’t know what you want to be, how can you achieve success?
如果你都不知道自己想要成为什么，怎么会成功呢？
What do you want to be?
你想要成为什么呢？