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科比妻子瓦妮莎追思会超感人致辞:你一定要照顾好Gigi,直到我们再次见面!(附视频&演讲稿)

2月25日进行的科比追悼会上,妻子瓦妮莎的致辞是最让人动容的环节。尽管外界已经熟知两人的甜蜜爱情和美满家庭,但当瓦妮莎再次告别丈夫时,还是道出了我们无从得知的感人故事。“从我17岁半开始,我们就在一起了,我是他的初恋、他的妻子,也是最好的朋友、守护者。我热情似火,他冷静如冰,有时候我们也会互换角色,他是我最出色的丈夫。”瓦妮莎说。瓦妮莎透露,科比在家庭中是一个极具浪漫情怀的人,总会在情人节、结婚纪念日给自己惊喜,科比曾将著名爱情电影《恋恋笔记本》中女主角所穿的蓝色裙子和笔记本送给瓦妮莎,“他希望我们像电影里那样慢慢变老。”就在科比去世前几周,他给瓦妮莎发了一条非常甜蜜的信息,提到希望两人有更多的时间共处,“只有我们两个人,没有孩子,只是我们最后没有机会实现这个愿望。但我非常感激这条信息,这对我来说意义非凡。”瓦妮莎说:“他无法带领女儿们走入婚姻殿堂了,但我希望女儿们可以记得,科比是一位杰出的父亲和丈夫,也是一个很好的人。”“宝贝,你一定要照顾好我们的Gigi,我也会照顾好Natalia、Bianka和Capri,我们依然是最好的一家人。我们爱你们,想念你们,希望你们能够安息,直到我们再次相见的那一天。”致辞的最后时刻,瓦妮莎已经无法自已。https://v.qq.com/txp/iframe/player.html?width=500&height=375&auto=0&vid=c30715x1lji北京时间2月25日凌晨,美国洛杉矶,NBA巨星科比·布莱恩特与女儿吉安娜追思会举行,斯台普斯中心座无虚席。迈克尔·乔丹等众多篮球界名人都来到现场。科比的妻子瓦妮莎发言缅怀科比和女儿Gigi,这也是瓦妮莎在科比失事后首次公开露面。发言中,瓦妮莎回忆到她从17岁半就和科比在一起了,“我是他的第一个女友,他的初恋,他的妻子,他最好的朋友,也是他的守护者。他是最棒的丈夫,我无法用言语形容他对我的爱,我是火,他是冰,也有时候我们会换过来。”瓦妮莎还透露在事故的前几周,科比还给她发了一条甜蜜的短信:想和你一起共度二人世界。“但我们并没有这样的机会,我们一直在花时间照看女儿们,做好两人应尽的义务。很感激自己能够收到那条短信,那对我意义重大。科比希望Natalia接管他的公司,他希望我们能一起环球旅行。我们经常讨论如何做一对有趣的外公外婆,他本可以成为最酷的外公。”“他喜欢带Bianka去公园,上一次是他和Gigi去世的前一晚。”瓦妮莎在发言中一度哽咽流泪,她表示科比不仅是最佳球员,也是最佳爸爸。“他的手臂充满魔力,能几分钟内就哄Capri入睡。他与Natalia分享电影,带她去看最新的《星球大战》或者《哈利波特》影片,他们还会举行电影马拉松,他享受其中的每分每秒。”瓦妮莎说到,科比希望自己的女儿可以打篮球,这样他们可以有更多共处的时光,“他曾试图说服Natalia打篮球,那样的话他们能有更多相处时间,但他也希望她可以追求自己的热爱。他还说他希望Bianka和Capri长大后可以从事篮球,这样他就能像和Gigi一样,与她们共度大量时光。”“尽管他无法带领女儿们走入婚姻殿堂,但我希望女儿们可以记得,他是一名杰出的父亲和丈夫,也是一个很好的人。他一心想要教导下一代做得更好,避免他们犯下自己犯过的错误。”瓦妮莎说道。瓦妮莎也流泪悼念了女儿:“Gigi是个非常甜美的女孩,她非常聪明,她和科比都能听几遍歌就记住歌词,这是他们的秘密技能。她是很棒的运动员,她自信又不高傲,乐于教别人东西,她会在学校里教男孩子打篮球。她会说也会写中文、也懂西班牙语。我们还来不及教她开车,我甚至没有机会在她结婚的日子告诉她,她有多美丽,再也看不到父女共舞的样子,Gigi本来会成为WNBA最棒的球员,她有机会改变女篮的。”发言最后,瓦妮莎已无法自己:“宝贝,你一定要照顾好我们的Gigi,我也会照顾好Natalia、Bianka和Capri。我们依旧是最好的一家人,我们爱你们,想念你们,希望你们安息,在天堂好好享乐,直到有一天我们能再次相见。我们爱你们,想念你们,永远永远。”


瓦妮莎追思会超感人致辞


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Thank you all so much for being here. It means so much to us. [someone shouts 'Love you.'] Love you too.


First I'd like to thank everyone for coming today. The outpouring of love and support that my family has felt from around the world has been so uplifting. Thank you so much for all your prayers. I'd like to talk about both Kobe and Gigi, but I'll start with my baby girl first.


Gianna Bryant

My baby girl. Gianna Bryant is an amazingly sweet and gentle soul. She was very thoughtful and always kissed me good night and kissed me good morning. There were a few occasions where I was absolutely tired from being up with Bianka and Capri, and i thought she had left to school without saying goodbye. I text and say, "No kiss?" And Gianna would reply with, "Mama, I kissed you. You were asleep and I didn't want to wake you." She knew how much her morning and evening kisses meant to me, and she was so thoughtful to remember to kiss me every day. She was daddy's girl, but I know she loved her mama, and she would always show me and tell me that she loved me. She was one of my very best friends.


She loved to bake. She loved putting a smile on everyone's face. Last August she made a beautiful birthday cake for her daddy, and it had fondant and looked like it had blue agate crystals. Kobe's birthday cake looked like it was professionally decorated. She made the best chocolate chip cookies. She loved watching cooking shows and "Cupcake Wars" with me, and she loved watching "Survivor" and "NBA on TNT" with her daddy. She also loved watching Disney movies with her sisters.


Gigi was very competitive like her daddy, but she had a sweet grace about her. Her smile was like sunshine. Her smile took up her entire face, like mine. Kobe always said she was me. She had my fire, my personality and sarcasm, and she was tender and loving on the inside. She had the best laugh. It was infectious. It was pure and genuine.
Kobe and Gianna naturally gravitated towards each other. She had Kobe's ability to listen to a song and have all the lyrics memorized after listening to the song a couple of times; it was their secret talent.
She was an incredible athlete. She was great at gymnastics, soccer, softball, dance, and basketball. She was an incredible dancer, too. She loved to swim, dance, do cartwheels and do jumps into our swimming pool. Gigi loved her TikTok dances.
Gigi was confident but not in an arrogant way. She loved helping and teaching other people things. At school she offered the boy's basketball coaches to help give the boys' basketball team some pointers, like the triangle offense. She was very much like her daddy and they both liked helping people learn new things and master them. They were great teachers.

Gigi was very sweet. She always made sure everybody was okay and she was our shepherd. She always kept our family together. She loved family traditions, and family movie night was important to her. She always looked out for everyone. She was very much in tune with our feelings and wanted the best for us.
Gianna was smart, She knew how to read, speak and write Mandarin, she knew Spanish and had great grades and kept them up all while becoming a great basketball player. She was president of school spirit, on student council. She was director's assistant for her school play just like her big sister. She was looking forward to graduating eighth grade and moving on to high school with her big sister, Natalia. I am so happy she was given the opportunity to know that she was accepted to the same high school. She was really happy.
Gianna made us all proud and she still does. Gianna never tried to conform. She was always herself. She was a nice person, a leader, a teacher, wearing a white tee, black leggings, a denim jacket, white high top Converse and a flannel tied around her waist, and straight hair was her go-to style. She had rhythm and swag since she was a baby. She gave the best hugs and the best kisses. She had gorgeous, soft lips like her daddy. She would hug me and hold me so tight, I could feel her love me, and I loved the way she looked up at me, it was as if she was soaking me all in. We love each other so much. I miss her so much.
She was so energetic. I couldn't keep up with her energy. She lapped Natalia and I on track once. She was about six years old. We let her have a head start and she still dusted us. I miss her sweet kisses and cleverness, and I miss her sarcasm and her wit, and that adorable sly side smile followed with a grin and a burst of laughter. We shared the same "cat that ate the canary" grin. Gigi was sunshine. She brightened up my day every day. I miss looking at her beautiful face.
She was always so good. A rule follower. I knew I could always count on her to do the right thing. She was the most loving daughter, thoughtful little sister and silly big sister. She often helped to carry the littles' baby bag and playing with them, and she loved helping with Bianka and Capri. Bianka loved going to the playground, swimming and jumping on the trampoline with Gigi. I used to tell Gigi I thought KoKo considered her her favorite sister. Capri would smile from ear to ear when Gigi walked into the room, and Capri reminds me a lot of Gianna. They look alike and just smile with their whole face -- pure joy.
We will not be able to see Gigi go to high school with Natalia and ask her how her day went. We didn't get a chance to teach her how to drive a car. I won't be able to tell her how gorgeous she looks on her wedding day. I will never get to see my baby girl walk down the aisle, have a father-daughter dance with her daddy, dance on the dance floor with me and have babies of her own. Gianna would have been an amazing mommy. She was very maternal ever since she was really little.

Gigi would've most likely become the best player in the WNBA. She would've made a huge difference for women's basketball. Gigi was motivated to change the way everyone viewed women in sports. She wrote papers in school defending women and wrote about how the unequal pay difference for the NBA and WNBA leagues wasn't fair. And i truly feel she made positive change for the WNBA players now, because they knew Gigi's goal was to eventually play in the WNBA.
I am still so proud of Gianna, and she was kind to everybody she met for the 13 years she was here on Earth. Her classmates shared many fond stories with us, and those stories reminded me that Gianna loved and showed everyone that no act of kindness is ever too small to make a difference in someone's life. She was always, always, always considerate of others and their feelings. She was a beautiful, kind, happy, silly, thoughtful and loving sister and daughter. She was so full of life and had so much more to offer this world. I cannot imagine life without her. Mommy, Natalia, Bianka, Capri and Daddy love you so much, Gigi. I will miss your sweet handmade cards, your sweet kisses, and your gorgeous smile. I miss you, all of you, every day. I love you.
Kobe BryantNow for my soulmate. Kobe was known as a fierce competitor on the basketball court. The greatest of all time, a writer, an Oscar winner and the Black Mamba. But to me he was KobKob, my Boo-Boo, my Bae-Boo, my papi chulo. I was his VeBe, his principessa, his reina, Queen Mama -- Mamba -- .
I couldn't see him as a celebrity nor just an incredible basketball player. He was my sweet husband and the beautiful father of my children. He was mine. He was my everything.
Kobe and I have been together since I was 17-and-a-half years old. I was his first girlfriend, his first love, his wife, his best friend, his confidant and his protector. He was the most amazing husband. Kobe loved me more than I could ever express or put into words. He was the early bird and I was the night owl, I was fire and he was ice, and vice versa at times. We balanced each other out. He would do anything for me. I have no idea how I deserved a man that loved and wanted me more than Kobe. He was charismatic, a gentleman, he was loving and adoring and romantic. He was truly the romantic one in our relationship. I looked forward to Valentine's Day and our anniversaries every year. He planned special anniversary trips and a special traditional gift for every year of our marriage. He even handmade my most treasured gifts. He just thought outside the box and was so thoughtful even while working hard to be the best athlete. He gave to me the actual notebook and the blue dress Rachel McAdams wore in "The Notebook" movie. When I asked him why he chose the blue dress, he said because it was the scene when Allie comes back to Noah. We had hoped to grow old together like the movie. We really had an amazing love story. We loved each other with our whole beings, two perfectly imperfect people raising a beautiful family and our sweet and amazing girls.
A couple weeks before they passed Kobe sent me a sweet text and mentioned how he wanted to spend time together, just the two of us, without our kids, because I am his best friend first. We never got the chance to do it. We were busy taking care of our girls and just doing our regular everyday responsibilities. But I'm thankful I have that recent text. It means so much to me. Kobe wanted us to renew our vows. He wanted Natalia to take over his company and he wanted to travel the world together. We talked about how we would be the fun grandparents to our daughters' children. He would have been the coolest grandpa.
Kobe was the MVP of girl dads, or MVD. He never left the toilet seat up. He always told the girls how beautiful and smart they are. He taught them how to be brave and how to keep pushing forward when things get tough. When Kobe retired from the NBA, he took over dropping off and picking up our girls from school since I was at home pregnant with Bianka and just recently home nursing Capri.
When Kobe was still playing, I used to show up an hour early to be the first in line to pick up Natalia and Gianna from school, and I told him he couldn't drop the ball once he took over. He was late one time, and we most definitely let him know that I was never late. So he showed up one hour and 20 minutes early after that.
He always knew there was room for improvement and wanted to do better. He happily did carpool and enjoyed spending time in the car with our girls. He was a doting father, a father that was hands on and present. He helped me bathe Bianka and Capri almost every night. He would sing them silly songs in the shower and continue making them laugh and smile as he lathered them in lotion and got them ready for bed. He had magic arms and could put Capri to sleep in only a few minutes. He said he had it down to a science, eight times up and down our hallway.

He loved taking Bianka to Fashion Island and watching her play in the koi pond area and loved taking her to the park. Their most recent visit to the koi pond was the evening before he and Gigi passed. He shared a love of movies and breakdown of films with Natalia. He enjoyed renting out theaters and taking Natalia to watch the newest "Star Wars" movie or "Harry Potter" films. They would have movie marathons and he enjoyed every second of it. He loved the typical tearjerkers, too, and he loved watching "Stepmom," Steel Magnolias," and "Little Women." He had a tender heart.
Kobe somehow knew where I was at all times, specifically when I was late to his games. He would worry about me if I wasn't in my seat at the start of each game and would ask security where I was, at the first time out of the first quarter. My smart ass would tell him he was not going to drop 81 points within the first 10 minutes of the game. I think anybody with kids understands that sometimes you can't make it out the door on time, and eventually he was used to my tardiness and balled out. The fact that he could play on an intense professional level and still be concerned by making sure we made it to the game safely is just another example of how family came first to him.

He loved being Gianna's basketball coach. He told me he wished he would have convinced Natalia to play basketball so they could have spent more time together, and he also wanted her to pursue her own passion. He watched Natalia play in a volleyball tournament on her birthday, January 19, and he noticed how she's a very intelligent player. He was convinced she would have made a great point guard with her vision of the court. And he told me he wanted Bianka and Capri to take up basketball so he could spend just as much time with him as he did with Gigi. Kobe always told Bianka and Capri that they were going to grow up, play basketball and 'mix they ass up.' Now they won't have their daddy and sister here to teach them, and that is truly a loss I do not understand.
I am so thankful Kobe heard KoKo say, "Dada." He is not here to drop Bianka and Capri off at pre-K or kindergarten, and he will not be here to tell me to get a grip when we have to leave the kindergarten classroom, and he is not going to be able to walk our girls down the aisle or spin me around on the dance floor, singing PYT to me. But I want my daughters to know and remember the amazing person, husband and father he was. The kind of man that wanted to teach future generations to be better and keep them from making his own mistakes. He always liked working and doing projects to improve kids' lives. He taught us all valuable lessons about life and sports through his NBA career, his books, his show, "Detail," and his "Punies" podcast series. We are so thankful he left those lessons and stories behind for us.
He was thoughtful and always wrote the best love letters and cards, and Gigi had his wonderful ability to express her feelings into paper and make you feel her love through his words. She was thoughtful like him. They were so easy to love. Everybody naturally gravitated towards them. They were funny, happy, silly, and they loved life. They were so full of joy and adventure. God knew they couldn't be on this Earth without each other. He had to bring them home to have them together. Babe, you take care of our Gigi. I got Nati, BiBi and KoKo, and we're still the best team.We love and miss you, Boo-Boo and Gigi. May you both rest in peace and have fun in heaven until we meet again one day. We love you both and miss you forever and always, Mommy▼往期精彩回顾▼353篇Ted英文演讲视频集合,收藏~69篇经典BBC纪录片合集,收藏学习吧!
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