你真的认识自己吗？一张图告诉你答案
两面思维公众号的第一篇，我们先聊一下这个公众号是做什么的。
In this first article, let us take you through what this is all about.
先来看一组图。
Here are a few pictures.
两面思维是一种从多角度看一件事情的能力。以上每张图都包含许多的深层意义，问题是，你有看出什么的意义出来吗？有趣的是，每个人看到的面都不太一样。
Both Sides Thinking is an ability to see things from different angles. The pictures above contain some deep meanings, the question is, what meanings did you see in these pictures? Interestingly, everyone will have a different answer.
举个例子。前阵子我和几个朋友聊到了说脏话这个话题。我朋友是南方人，和北方人一起吃饭，北方人举起酒杯，笑脸盈盈，一副称兄道弟的样子，可开口就是脏话：“去你＊＊，喝一个。”
一般说脏话是在骂人的时候，用于表达我们不好的情绪，这是约定俗成的概念。
但任何语言的表达都不能离开语境而单独存在。
换个思维，此刻的脏话没有恶意，更像一句口头禅。其实，我们或多或少都活在自己的思维惯性里，活在自我的局限里。我们常常会被我们所认定对的一面困住。
还是刚刚的例子，听到对方一句“脏话”你撂了杯子，接着还一句“去你＊＊”，这时你就真的在骂人了。两面思维是让我们从这种惯性中解脱出来，打开和接收全新的角度去了解世界，了解自身。
和你的北方朋友聊聊他们的语言体系，聊聊南北差异，不是很愉快的事情吗？
我常常认为，能进入到不同的生活圈子是一件快乐的事情，这种快乐来自于不同思维方式的碰撞，打开了新世界的大门。
在这里，我们每周推出图片让我们大家一起从自己的角度解读自己的意义，在留言区留下自己的想法，再看看别人的不同的观点，从而获得意想不到的新角度。
Every week we are going to release a new picture, you can interpret it in your own way and leave your thinkings behind in the comment section, also seeing how others see it differently from yours, you will be surprised by the different perspectives.
比如这张图：
Give you an example:
请看看这张图，你第一个印象看出什么？
Please take a look, what are your first thoughts on this picture?
这张图给我印象深刻，是一位朋友连结到自己的故事，说哭了。＋象征着医院，钩子代表了权益，她想起自己的亲人在医院非正常去世的经历，故事我已经记不清楚，但是她说完释然的瞬间，让我看到了卡片的力量。当时，我的另一位韩国朋友也说起了亲人的离开。那时候他在国外求学，妈妈病危也没能赶回来，成为人生憾事。
“＋/—”得失很难说清楚。
This one actually has made a deep impression on me, because one of my friend related this picture to her past experience, and she began crying. + represented the hospital, the hook represented her rights, she remembered a family member died from a very abnormal occasion, although I couldn't recall all the details, at that very moment I felt the power of this picture. Also on that same event, my other Korean friend also began talking about his past experience, while he was studying abroad, he couldn't get back on time to see her severely ill mom for the last time, and became his life's biggest regret.
"+/-" Gains and losses are very hard to justify.
每一张图背后的故事，专属于你。这张图，还有其它的说法：
Each picture can reveal a story. And this picture, have more to say:
（两面思维 线下讨论活动 Both Sides Thinking offline workshop)
悦悦：倒过来看，钩子是一个问号，对的事情一定是对的吗？整个画面是一个疑问。
叶斌：正正反反是是非非，不知你会接触到什么。
黑米：好的一天我得到快乐，坏的一天我得到经验，两样都一样重要。
Bobo：无常
阿松：这就好像生活中我们会遇到对的人和错的人，不要去强求，顺其自然。
诗洁：钩子是钩不到＋和—的，越是要抓住就越失去。当执着于某种结果去做事情， 都得不到。比如执着快乐，就会失去快乐。
Yueyue：To see it upside down, the hook becomes a question mark, are what we think is right always right? The whole picture becomes a question.
Yebin：Right wrong true false, eventually really you don't know what you will get.
Hymn：A good day I get happiness, a bad day I gain experience, and I need both.
Bobo：Impermanence
Song：It is like the good or bad people we may encounter in life, no need to chase for it, just let it come naturally
Sarah：I think the hook cannot grasp any + or -, the more I want to grasp the further it will be away from me, when I become too attached to a certain result, having nothing to do with right or wrong, I will not be able to get any things. Eg. if I chase happiness, happiness will get further away from me.
首先每张卡片包含的议题都不一样，每个人看到的角度也是五花八门。当每个人都表达自己的想法和对比一下别人的想法，达到互相交流想法，会有出奇的收获.
First of all, every picture contains a different life topic, and everyone would see it in a different way. When we have expressed ourselves and compared that with others, and exchanging our thoughts, we will discover new insights.
这些卡片特点是没有绝对的对与错，一切都是不同的面。在看的过程中，可以想想这卡片有什么跟自己的连结，第一印象是什么，由于每个人的背景和经验不一样，所描述的也因此不一样，能达到了解自己不一定是对的，和别人也不一定是错的，就是两面思维的核心理念。
One important thing about these pictures is there is no right or wrong answers, everything is just looking from a different angle. When seeing the picture, you can try to connect that with your own personal life, what are your first thoughts? Because everyone is different in background and experiences, so their interpretations will also be totally different. To understand yourself is not always right, and to understand others are not always wrong, is the core philosophy behind Both Sides Thinking.
每张图片都是透過簡約设计去呈現一些抽象的哲理，显现每个人的各种生命议题。
所谓两面，单单一面是不足够的，需要更多人“照出”不同的面，才会变得有意思。
这也是我们为什么要做这样的一个公众号。所以期待你的关注和参与，让平面图变得立体，从多角度认识自己。
Every picture is showing an abstract philosophy through minimalistic designs, themes are always based on our personal lives. So called "both sides", a single side is not enough, when more people are revealing the different sides of that same picture, it will become much more interesting. So this is also why we started this project. So I will invite you to join in the discussions, turning a flat picture into multi-dimensional, getting to know more about ourselves from different perspectives.
多角度认识自己和世界，最终是为了超越两面性，回归到一。这是一条慢慢看清自己的旅程，一起出发吧!
Knowing yourself and the world through different perspectives, and being able to look beyond the both sides to become harmonious with everything else is a life long journey and the ultimate goal, so the journey has already begun, and it is now.