女神从来不靠奢侈品抓人眼球

Most girls want to be described as charming, beautiful and intelligent. Beauty and intelligence are the concepts everyone knows the meanings of. But what does the word ‘charming’ mean? Charm is the impression you leave on someone you have just met. It’s a picture that appears in others’ heads every time they think about you.

绝大多数女孩希望别人称自己有魅力，漂亮，聪明。想必每个人都知道漂亮和聪明的含义。但是，“魅力”是什么意思？魅力就是你给刚刚见面的那个人留下的印象，是奢侈品？还是每当别人想起你时，在头脑里形成的生动且真实的画面。

   Charming women leave an amazing impression and they boast lots of wonderful characteristics, including these eight I’m going to talk about right now. If you want to be charming, check out the list and discover some new things you didn’t notice earlier.
有魅力的女人给人留下很好的印象，她们拥有许多美妙的特点，包括我将要说到的以下八点。如果你想变得迷人，下列八点，发现你之前并没有注意的新东西吧...

1. Tell the truth 讲实话

      Being honest and frank with people is an irreplaceable part of every charming girl. If you lie to others and the truth comes out (don’t worry, it always does), it’ll destroy your reputation in no time. No matter how charming you may be, people will know you as a liar.
诚实和坦率待人是每个迷人女生不可替代的部分。如果你欺骗了别人，结果真相传出（不必担心，真相往往会浮出水面），这将会立即破坏你的名声。不论你有多么的迷人，人们会认为你是骗子。

      If you don’t want to answer someone’s question, just say that you don’t want to talk about it but don’t lie.
如果你不想回答某人的问题，直接说你不想谈这个，但是绝不能撒谎。

2. Be nice and kind 友好、善良

            Learn how to be well-mannered if you’re going to become charming. Do you often face pleasant and kind people in life?
如果你打算变得有魅力，学会有礼貌。你是否在生活中常常会遇到愉快又友善的人？

          I guess, the number isn’t so huge that you can ignore such people. Same goes to you. Try to be friendlier and kinder and the positivity of your words and deeds will create a colorful picture of you in others’ minds for good.
我猜，这个数字不会太大，以至于你可以忽略这类人。你也一样，试着变得更友好，更善良，你言行的正能量会在别人的心中为你打造一幅多彩的画面。

3. Be the way you are 用你的方式做自己

         Probably, the main thing to remember if you want to be charming is to stay the way you are all around. If you just copy someone’s charm it wouldn’t make you charming because charm is an individual, unique thing that differs from person to person.
也许，如果你想要变得迷人，最主要是要记住要保持自我。如果你仅仅是模仿别人的魅力，这根本不会让你变得有魅力，因为魅力是个人的，独一无二的，人与人之间都有所不同。

        There are two kinds of people: charming and those who try to look like them. You see, being charming is all about being yourself.
这有两种人：有魅力的人和那些试图象他们的人。看吧，迷人之处就在于做你自己。

4. Look great 看起来精神充沛

        Neither it means that you need to waste lots of money in order to purchase expensive fashionable clothes, nor that you should have Angelina Jolie’s face and Kim Kardashian’s body shape.
这不是说你需要为了购买贵重又时尚的衣服而浪费钱财，也不是说你应该拥有安吉丽娜•朱莉的脸庞和金•卡戴珊的身材。

        Just make efforts to look better and everyone will notice it at once. Looking great means looking the way you like yourself. If you’re not afraid to look in the mirror, you have more chances to be a charming kind of person.
努力让自己更好看，每个人才会立即注意到你。看起来很棒的意思是看起来像你自己原本的样子。如果你不害怕看镜子，你会有更多成为有魅力之人的机会。

5. Listen 聆听

      Do you like when you speak and no one listens to your words? No one does. The other thing that can help you be more charming is your listening skills.
你喜欢当自己讲话的时候没人在听吗？没有人喜欢这样。另一件让你变得更具魅力的事情就是你的倾听技巧。

       Try to be all ears when someone shares an information with you and then ask an interesting question if you want to show that you were thoroughly engaged in the story.
当有人和你共享信息时，试图全神贯注去听，然后如果你想证明自己完全在听这个故事，那么问一个有趣的问题吧。

6. Be modes 谦虚

      There’s nothing more charming than a modest person. If you ask a question and get nothing in return, for instance, there’s no need to insist on it.
没有什么比一个谦虚的人更迷人了。比如：如果你提出了一个问题，然而并没有得到答案，那就没有必要再问了。

     If someone doesn’t want to give an answer, you most likely already know it so it’s better to think a bit about it. Of course, everything depends on a situation but in most cases you shouldn’t ask for more when something is offered to you as well.
如果有人不想给出答案，你最有可能已经知道答案，因此，最好再想想。当然，任何事都取决于形势，但是在大多数情况下，当你得到一些东西时就不要索要更多。

This way, you won’t cause any problems to people and they’ll definitely treat you better.
这样的话，你就不会给他们带来任何问题，他们也一定会待你更好。

7. Be easygoing 随和

     There’s no need to be serious all along. Being charming means being simple and funny. Try to point out the bright side of life and don’t be afraid to make people laugh if you feel it’s appropriate in a current moment.
没有必要一直严肃。迷人就是简单快乐。试图发现生活明亮的一面，如果你感到当前时刻很合适，就去逗别人开心吧。

    A charming person is the one who’s able to put off a crown and laugh at themselves. Be more easygoing and people will find it wonderful to spend free time with you thanks to your charming nature.
一个有魅力的人是能够脱掉王冠会自嘲的人。变得更加随和，人们会因为你迷人的性格而愿意和你共度空闲时光。

8. Smile 微笑

      Smiling is the best remedy for depression and bad mood. Even if it seems that the whole world is endangered, you can smile and things will become better at once.
微笑是治疗抑郁和坏心情的良方。即使整个世界仿佛濒临灭绝，你依然可以微笑，事情就会变得更好。

      If you smile to people more often, they’ll remember you as a positive person and would like to meet you again. Your positivity attracts people and lets you be open to show your genuine charm with all its power.
如果你经常对别人笑，人们会记得你是个积极乐观的人，并且会想再次见到你。你乐观的性格吸引着其他人，让自己带着所有力量展示真正的魅力。

      If you use these clues, it’ll be easier to be a charming version of yourself. You’ll also be more popular among others and will even become a role model for some girls.
如果使用这些提示，你会更加容易变成独具魅力的自己。你也会更加受人欢迎，也会成为有些姑娘的偶像哦！

      The main thing is to stay yourself whatever you do. Don’t try to copy others’ behavior. Reveal your own uniqueness and love yourself.
最主要的是不论你做什么，都要保持原本的自己。不要试图去模仿别人的行为。展示你的独特性并且爱自己。

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