INVITE! Exclusive workshop on effective communication! 独家软技能工作坊
根据她价值社区成员的强烈要求，她价值来为大家提供软技能培训工作坊和课程！高情商沟通在人生各种应用场景和包括在金融和资产管理行业的职场都是特别重要的技能！
沟通在我们的生活中占据着越来越多的比重，渗透在我们生活的各个方面。如何让每一次表达都成为你的高光时刻？如何通过沟通能力一举赢得核心竞争力！答案就是：让语言永远走在能力的前面！人人都能说话，但并不是人人都会说话！
你为何说话？你为何花费时间精力与他人沟通和表达？
因为你需要碰撞、激发、说服以求得共识，共识才会得到理解，寻求帮助，提高效率，开展行动。
无论是在家庭还是职场，是聊天还是开会，我们都得先说话，说话几乎是拉开后面一切行为的序幕；影响他人的观念是语言的终极目的。你需要影响谁的观念，谁就掌握着这场语言游戏里生杀予夺的权力。
说话是一种与生俱来的能力，但好好说话得靠后天的刻意训练。
“我怎么想就怎么说啊！”
“我就直接说了啊”
“实话实说啊”
此类开场白都慎用，开口之前别为自己的说话战术懒惰豁免。你的话得兼顾场景，得有分析的心态，你要说的内容，得靠对方才能完成豁免。
所有说话都是有对象的说话
避免自说自话，独角戏和诗朗诵。
你想表达什么不是最重要的，最重要的是让对方接受到什么。对方愿意听并理解了，你说的话才是有效且有意义的。
说话前意识到一件事情存在两个版本，可预防人际冲突。
从来都没有“对事不对人”这钟事，话是人说的，事是人办的，我们对的就是人。
正因为对的是人，人有原因、背景、需求、才有沟通的基础。必要时预设立场，揣摩表达角度，人际沟通里最冤的就是本来只是说话方式的错，最后变成这个人不好。
说话有套路，可以学习和掌握，但是套路不是贬义词。
我们每个人之所以成长为现在这样，无非在扬长避短的前提下，取他人之长补自己之短。
每个人生来的特质、天赋不同，后天成长环境，机缘不同，我们的认知和经验早已形成自己的套路，套路是可用之工具，个中性词。
在职场中，你是否有遇到下面的困扰：
上级布置任务，我总是get不到他想表达的内容，导致结果也达不到领导的要求；
在与同事们和下属沟通的时候，不知道如何表达赞美和激励；
当遇到矛盾或者需要拒绝的时候，我又陷入恐慌，不知如何表达；
在重要会议上，我总不能很精准表达自己的观点，展示自己的能力；
以上不会说、不敢说的问题已经成为80%职场人的困惑，也成为上班族的压力来源，有的人甚至因此错过升职加薪的机会；
所以，如何高情商沟通已成为职场人的痛点，更是每一个职场人的必备技能。
本课程结合多种场景及多个沟通方法，帮你摆脱沟通困境，变身职场沟通达人！
一生中最重要的表达：
1、第一时间赢得认同感的自我介绍
2、人设：因为相同而接受你，因为不同而选择你
3、人设提炼四环定位法，让自我介绍不再单调
4、以目标为导向的不同自我介绍方法
社交中：
5、如何建立良好的第一印象
6、如何有针对性的做出反馈与回应
7、如何夸赞她人提高人际关系
8、如何真诚的向别人表达歉意
职场中：
9、如何沟通赢得别人支持和帮助
10、即兴发言时如何开头和收尾
11、如何做出一个精彩的工作汇报
12、如何提升自己的逻辑表达能力
家庭中：
13、如何与另一半保持感情热度的沟通方法
14、如何沟通才能与孩子/父母建立亲密关系
本次工作坊由专业导师带领。线下在美国驻华使馆北京美国中心。本次活动对所有报名成功成员免费。鸣谢美国驻华使馆和棒咖啡以及所有推广机构。工作坊时间和课程分布为下：
· 10:00 – 10:15am 活动注册
· 10:15 – 10:30am 她价值介绍，特别鸣谢美国大使馆和推广机构
· 10:30 – 11:45pm 高情商沟通工作坊
· 11:45 – 12:00pm 活动结束
活动报名须知
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活动当天和活动结束后须知
活动当天不允许迟到。因为美国使馆安保条款，请携带护照或者身份证参与活动当天的工作坊。美国使馆不允许携带电脑，手机会被留在安保。活动严格遵守她价值社区条款。不允许拍照，录像，活动后分享活动心得或者发言者名字和机构等等。
参与此活动为同意她价值社区以下条款。
Communication plays a significantrole in our daily lives. How to effectively use every opportunity that youspeak as a chance to showcase who you are and shine? How to use every chancethat you get to speak or communicate as an opportunity to grow and develop?
This skill set is even more importantfor women working in the finance and asset management industry. Communicationis about building consensus, seeking support, and planning. It is important toput thought into your communication skills.
For example, in life, it is importantto build a good first impression, provide feedback, give words of affirmation,and express genuine feedback. At work, how to communicate to win over otherssupport and help, how to provide a concise response, how to logically expresscertain position, and how to persuade someone.
HerValue community member alsorevealed the desire to build on soft skills such as an effective communicationskill and how this could be a natural strength for women to build on.
The workshop will be led by a renowninstructor and expert in the field. The agenda is as followed:
· 10:00 – 10:15am Registration
· 10:15 – 10:30am Introductionof HerValue (who we are, what
we do, and our rules), special credit to United
States Embassy, and marketing sponsors
· 10:30 – 11:45pm Workshopon how to build effective and
highly empathetic communicationskills
· 11:45 – 12:00pm Concluding remarks
The event will be held entirely in Chinese with optional translation in English for amaximum of 30 people. Physical location is hosted at the Beijing AmericanCenter at the United States Embassy in Beijing! The event is again at no cost to attending members thanks to the United StatesEmbassy and Bon Café+ as a sponsor! Light refreshments will be served.
Before the event
To successfully register, please fillout requested information listed in the survey by scanning the QR code or clickthe survey link.
Please email hervalue@outlook.com or contact event organizers if you have questions.Incomplete or poor quality information submission will be deemed invalidregistration. We need your WeChat ID to successfully escort you throughout theAustralian Embassy in Beijing. A quick phone call will be conducted to have abrief meet & greet upon your registration. Please note your submission tothe following will also be shared with other attendees without nameidentification.
Event location for meet up point, Zoomlink, and each attendees’ submission statements will be shared a day before theevent. If you are not contacted by the event organizer with event location andother attendees’ submission statements, then you have not been registeredsuccessfully!
At the and after the event
Because the event is at no cost toattendees and it is important to ensure timely attendance to enter a highlysecured premise, there will be no entry will be allowed after 7:00pm and pleasebring your identification, either passport or ID!
The event will be strictly organizedunder HerValue community guidelines. For example, no photos at the event, nodiscussion of work, confidential matters, politics, religion at the event, andno identification of speakers post event.
BY ATTENDING, YOU AGREE TOTHE COMMUNITY GUIDELINES OUTLINED IN THE ARTICLE POSTED ON HERVALUE SOCIALMEDIA PLATFORM PER LINK HERE. VIOLATORS WILL BE ASKED TO LEAVE THE HERVALUECOMMUNITY - https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/QUuA1dZzVZNN7KKRDjVIpQ
About HerValue 关于她价值. HerValue is a not-for-profit mutual-assistance platform, community, and movement serving women in the broader finance industry in Beijing and Greater China. HerValue is acommunity and platform that unites international and domestic individuals andinstitutions that are passionate about our mission. This community and platformcrowdsource from supporting institutions and individuals’ resource and opportunities to better serve its mission, vision, and members. 她价值是一个非营利性互助平台，社区和运动，为北京和大中华地区的金融行业的女性提供服务。 她价值连接起对我们的使命充满热情的国内外人士与机构，汲取支持机构和个人的资源与机会，以更好地服务于其使命，愿景和成员
About BonCafe+ 关于龙行棒咖啡. Theorigin of BonCafe+ is a corporate social responsibility project that began in 2018. This project promotes the introduction of Myanmar’salternative planted coffee to the Chinese market, and by guiding consumers, itencourages Chinese companies investing in Myanmar through sustainableoperations. Ways to participate more in corporate social responsibilityprojects. This project gradually developed into a platform to promote China'soverseas investment and sustainable development, and built the first physicalcoffee shop in Beijing's core business district. We support responsibleinvestment, biodiversity, women’s equality, and all activities anddiscussions that can promote the healthy and healthy development ofsociety. 龙行棒咖啡的源头是一个始于2018年的企业社会责任项目，这个项目旨在通过将缅甸的替代种植咖啡介绍到中国市场，通过引导消费者，鼓励中国在缅甸投资的企业通过可持续经营的方式更多的参与到企业社会责任项目中。这个项目逐渐发展成一个旨在推动中国海外投资与可持续发展的平台，并在北京的核心商圈建成了第一家实体咖啡店。我们支持有关负责任投资，生物多样性，劳工及妇女平等以及所有能够推动社会良性健康发展的活动和讨论
About Lean In Beijing关于励媖北京. Lean In Beijing is the firstcity-level community of Lean In China. It aims to spread Lean’s cultureand philosophy to the outside world, empowering the humanity and allworkplaces. We hope that through our activities, documents and related items,comprehensively improve the skills, leadership, and create a platform foreveryone to share and learn to help them find more like-minded partners andexpand their diversified network. Lean in Beijing regularly organizes differenttypes of offline activities such as "Leadership Program", "TutorProgram", "Circle Activities", and the scale of each activityranges from 100 to 100励媖北京为励媖中国的第⼀个城市级社区，⼀直致⼒于把励媖的⽂化和理念向外传播，为⼴⼤⼥性以及全部职场⼈赋能，希望通过我们的活动、⽂章以及相关项⽬，全⽅位的提升⼤家的技能、领导⼒以及为⼤家打造⼀个可以尽情分享和学习的平台，帮助⼤家找到更多志同道合的伙伴，扩展多元化⼈脉。Lean in Beijing(励媖北京) 定期组织“领导⼒计划”、“导师计划”、“圈⼦活动”等不同类型的线下活动，每次活动规模从1 0⼈到1 0 0⼈不等。
为了保持“社交距离”，本次活动北京美国中心只能容纳30位观众。
In order to maintain social distance guidelines, the Beijing American Center will seat 30 attendees for this event.
为了保护所有出席者的健康和安全，如果您有以下情况请不要参加此次活动：
In order to protect the health and safety of all in attendance, please do not come to this event if you:
1. 最近14天内有感冒或流感症状，如发烧，气短，持续咳嗽，或突然丧失味觉或嗅觉;
Have had any cold or flu-like symptoms in the past 14 days, such as fever, shortness of breath, persistent cough, or sudden loss of sense of taste or smell;
2. 您体温在过去的24小时内量体温超出正常范围（体温高于99.2华氏度/37.3摄氏度为超出正常范围）；
Have taken your temperature in the last 24 hours that was outside the normal range (above 99.2°F/37.3°C);
3. 在最近的14天内，曾经去过或路过高风险地区；
Have traveled to or through medium and high-risk areas or regions in the last 14 days;
4. 在最近的14天内，曾经和到过或路过高风险地区的人有密切接触;或
Have had close contact with individuals who have traveled to or through medium and high-risk areas or regions within the last 14 days; and/or
5. 最近14天内曾经和目前正在隔离的人有过密切接触。
Have had close contact with anyone who quarantined within the last 14 days.
由于疫情期间，所有到场观众都必须佩戴口罩，保持“社交距离”。
During this time, attendees must wear masks and maintain social distancing requirements.
*北京健康宝为绿码，始得进入使馆。
Attendees are required to show a green Beijing Health Code to enter the Embassy.
Reasonable Accommodations for persons with disabilities who wish to attend this event are available upon request. Please submit a request for accommodations in advance or as soon as possible via email to BACrsvp1@state.gov.
可根据请求为希望参加此活动的残障人士提供合理的便利安排。请提前或尽快发电子邮件给 BACrsvp1@state.gov. 提交请求。
活动开始前30分钟可以进入。请尽量于活动开始前15分钟到达以便有足够时间通过安检。
Doors will open 30 minutes before the program starts. Please try to arrive at least 15 minutes before the program starts to allow enough time to go through security.
注意：音频和视频记录设备不得使用。有关媒体采访细节须直接与美国使馆新闻处取得联系。
NOTE: Audio or video recording of the program will not be permitted. Press inquiries should be directed to the U.S. Embassy Press Office.
请注意：活动参与者授权美国国务部拍摄和录像他们的形象和/或声音。允许美国国务部在公共信息项目和活动中发布、出版、广播或引用这些材料。获得的内容可能会被用于未来的演讲、在互联网上传播、以及通过多种广播渠道和印刷媒体传播。内容（图片、音频或想法）的使用将不会用于商业目的。非常感谢。
Please note that attendees of this event grant permission to the U.S. Department of State to photograph and video record their image and/or voice. Permission is granted for the U.S. Department of State to release, publish, broadcast, or quote this material in public information programs and activities. Content procured may be included in future speeches, on the Internet, through multiple broadcast channels and print media. Use of content (image, audio, or ideas) will not be used for commercial purposes. Thank you very much.
*请记住携带有效的并有照片的身份证件原件进入北京美国中心, 证件复印件或照片将不被允许进入。来北京美国中心参加此活动请勿携带大包。
You must bring a valid physical photo ID in order to enter the Beijing American Center (BAC). Copies or pictures of IDs will not be accepted. No large bags will be allowed into the BAC for this event.
*访客请勿携带笔记本电脑。便携式电子设备如手机，iPads和其他平板电脑，智能手表可以带进北京美国中心的活动。
While portable electronic devices, such as mobile phones, iPads and other tablets, and smartwatches are permitted, guests may not bring laptop computers to Beijing American Center programs.
出于安全原因，北京美国中心的工作人员保留拒绝任何人进入的权利。
For security reasons, the BAC staff reserves the right to refuse entry to anyone.
地点：北京市朝阳区安家楼路55号 (美国大使馆东门)。
Location: No. 55 An Jia Lou Road, Chaoyang District, Beijing (East Gate of the U.S. Embassy).
交通：地铁10号，亮马桥站B出口，向东北步行至天泽路和安家楼路交汇处， 签证处北侧。
Directions: Metro Line 10, Liangmaqiao Station Exit B, walk northeast to the Tian Zhe Road intersection of An Jia Lou Road, north side of the Visa Office.
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Follow us on the Embassy’s WeChat by searching USEmbassyChina