Date Night China: 011 Brunch & Day Party
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This article comes from Date Night China (WeChat ID: datenightchina), your guide to dating in China, from love to lust, first dates to worst dates, hilarious stories and top tips to avoid (or steer into) disaster. Single in the city? Listen to their podcast here: anchor.fm/datenightchina.
Looking for a summer day party where you can enjoy great music at some of Beijing's best locations? 011 Brunch and Day Parties checks all the boxes.
In the following interview, Boitha, the founder of 011 Day Parties, shares all about why she started these monthly shindigs and how they are a great opportunity to meet new people.
My name is Boithabiso but everybody calls me Boitha. I’m from South Africa (Frankfort) and I have been living in Beijing for almost 5 years now. For work, I am a Marketing and Communications Specialist for an international school.
What my early days of dating here taught me was to be up front about my expectations and non-negotiables, that way you avoid disappointment at a later stage. Another thing I learned was to ask the tough questions from the get go to avoid awkward situations.
Ideal first date in Beijing?
I am a fan of food and music, so I would say dinner at a place like Zha Zha Bistro or Lost Heaven, then head to a concert at Blue Note or Yugong Yishan (editor's note: sadly, now closed).
An alternative is to go on a bike tour of Beijing with Dom from Belectric. Quite fun.
Craziest date experience you’ve had in China?
There was one date with this man who conveniently forgot to tell me that he was married, and decided to break the news to me as I was walking into his apartment and being met by a three metre photo of him and his wife. At first I thought he was joking, but as I walked into the living room, I saw more images of them and just burst out laughing in disbelief. Might I add, they had a dog, and it did not take a liking to me, obviously!
Why did you start doing 011 Brunch and Day Parties?
011 is the dialling code for Johannesburg, and after I moved to Beijing I missed the lively cosmopolitan day partying scene of the city. As a result I decided to bring a bit of it to Beijing through these monthly 011 Day events. This was in 2017 and they have been going on since then.
What kind of 011 Day Parties have you thrown?
My favorite was the one where I collaborated with a fellow South African, Nathan, who organizes chisanyamas (South African version of a BBQ). It was packed and the atmosphere was electric. It reminded me of home, just with an even more diverse crown made up of Beijing expats and locals.
How has the response been from the Beijing community?
Can you meet people and/or find people to date at these 011 Day Parties?
Have you ever dated someone you met at one of these events?
Would these parties be great to take a date to?
And if it’s one of those awkward dates, you can just start talking to other people there.
Any advice you’d give to China daters?
Facebook: 011 Brunch & Day Party
Instagram: @beijing011
If you would like to be added to the WeChat group, add Boitha on WeChat (ID: boitha2)
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Images: eb Photography
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