TBT: On Chinese Mothers-in-Law & Raising the White Flag
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Beijingkids has been an essential family resource for Beijing
international families since 2006. And just as kids grow up in the blink
of an eye, Beijing has grown and changed almost beyond recognition in
that time. In Throwback Thursday we
jump in the time machine, traveling through our 14 year-strong blog
archives to dig out the most entertaining, fascinating, and
thought-provoking stories for your reading pleasure. Ready? Let’s go…
For this week’s Throwback Thursday instead of
digging through the archives looking for an unusual news article to riff
on, we’ve taken a slightly different tack. This piece comes from to you
from Jun 2012… however, it could have been written in just about any
year, or even century because the topic it discusses is so universal:
Mothers in Law.
We hope you enjoy it.
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In modern Chinese culture, the in-laws generally move in with the new parents to help with the infant, often staying indefinitely. Mercifully, my mother-in-law, or MIL, chose to rent an apartment in the same complex instead. It’s hardly distinguishable, however, because she spends about twelve hours in our home each day.
She is an incredible cook. During my first month postpartum, it was thanks to my MIL that I ate such healthy food and recovered so quickly from childbirth. Since then, she has kept us beautifully fed, and prides herself in her cleaning and organizing skills. She is also wonderful with our daughter and is a doting grandmother. Her presence has allowed me to resume exercising, occasionally go out with friends alone, not to mention write this column.
Inherent in all this, however, is the Chinese philosophy that my generation isn’t equipped to adequately manage a household with a newborn child...
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