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雪莉之死,韩国世界第一的性变态潜规则!

观潮君的☞ 雨中红莲 2021-01-23

  来源:顾颖琼博士(作者顾颖琼)、人民网、澎湃新闻



雪莉之死,
韩国世界第一的性变态潜规则!

雪莉死了,在一个很美好的年龄,用一种很不美好的方式离开了我们。


很多人都很喜欢雪莉,清纯不做作,顾颖琼博士也喜欢她,还曾经因为看见她在直播流泪,而在她的INS上留言:

从前车马慢,书信远,一生只够爱一人。如今世界匆忙,只愿你眼中有光,活成自己喜欢的样子。 


不知道她看见没?最终她还是自杀了,至少警方的报告是这么说的。


谁会自杀呢?我闺蜜小小莎老师一共见过雪莉两次,一次在纽约,一次在米兰。她都是白白美美的,安静地像芭比娃娃一样笑着。请求合影也是很有友好地接受了~


如果不是因为韩国娱乐圈有着龌龊世界第一的性变态潜规则!雪莉是不会自杀的。


雪莉的自杀不是第一个,也永远不会是最后一个,只要韩国娱乐圈还是有这么变态的潜规则,有这样变态对待女演员的男人们。


我们还会看见更多美美的雪莉“主动”离开我们!


说到娱乐圈潜规则,大家可能一般想到的都是导演和演员。


寂寞有权的导演遇见姣好爱才的女演员。比如结婚的张艺谋和当时有男友的巩俐。



就在巩俐和张艺谋的性关系曝光之后, 巩俐当时的男友小杨还因为她的“背叛”打了她。当张艺谋知道自己第一任妻子看见了巩俐和张艺谋的情书后,对恋情也并未隐瞒,并坦承:“在山东我们俩还没有什么,到宁夏后,发生了那么几次……就是这么回事。” 


可以看见导演和女演员们虽然有了不可见人的关系,顾颖琼博士认为但是两者之间至少是有情的。


还有成名女演员利用自己影响力帮助还没成名的小鲜肉,趁机潜规则的,就像熟女刘晓庆和小鲜肉姜文。


1986年,电影《芙蓉镇》促成了刘晓庆和姜文的相识相恋。当时,姜文23岁,是刚毕业的话剧演员,谢晋导演眼中中央戏剧学院最优秀的学生;刘晓庆31岁,已是影后级明星。


当时的刘晓庆已婚,而姜文渴望出名。


谁知两只快乐鸳鸯被刘晓庆的第二任老公陈国军捉奸在床,被戴了绿帽子的陈国军是怒不可遏,于是写了一本《我和刘晓庆——不得不说的故事》,里面披露了刘晓庆诸多的隐私。


刘晓庆与姜文爱了8年后也是分手,不过分手后跟姜文关系很不错,顾颖琼博士知道当年偷税案发,所有人对刘晓庆避之不及,只有姜文东奔西走,为她联系律师偿还债务,看来姜文对她是真动了深情的。


这样的潜规则倒也好,满足了各自的需要!



或者和好莱坞大亨韦恩斯坦一样,被指对超过75名女演员有过性骚扰或者不当对待,但也算你陪我上床,我给你角色的一次性交易潜规则。


67岁的哈维·韦恩斯坦是好莱坞最著名的制片人,他监制过一系列得奖电影,包括《莎翁情史》(Shakespeare in Love,《写我深情》)、《国王的演讲》(The King's Speech,《皇上无话儿》)以及《艺术家》(The Artist,《星光梦里人》)。


自1999年至今,他监制过的电影总共赢得过81座奥斯卡小金人。


顾颖琼博士知道他捧红了一代又一代的好莱坞女明星。而当时女明星们也是对他趋之若鹜,所以这种潜规则倒也是半斤八两!



但韩国娱乐界的潜规则已经到了世界第一变态的地步。

顾颖琼博士采集了韩国法院以及大新闻社的曝光,发现韩国的潜规则绝对是灭绝人性的!


比如早前,韩国女艺人张紫妍因无法忍受上床潜规则而自杀,随着张紫妍生前50多封亲笔信件的曝光,韩国的黑幕也被爆露出来!


其中五大潜规则牢牢压住韩国的女演员们!


规则一:从艺先做“练习生” 训练内容很残酷
规则二:签约之后成“奴隶” 经济剥削很严重
规则三:出道之前先整容 工作强度非常大
规则四:黑道资金也进入 艺人经常遇暴力
规则五:陪酒陪睡很普遍 娱乐公司拉皮条


第五条就是压倒女演员们的最后一根稻草。


比如张紫妍一天要接受10多人强暴,在她自杀的几天前,还被迫去做了结扎手术,方便男人不戴套进入。


张紫妍被迫签署过5p性爱同意书,被迫灌药吸毒,事后走路都困难,连母亲忌日当天她都没被放过,还是要接客。


陪睡小姐一天也才接待2~3个,张紫妍一天平均要应付5个男人,最多连续服务72小时。这真不是人过的日子。



她在遗书中说道:“某日刊报社的老板,下流又肮脏,玩弄我的身体,我仅是新人,好想逃离生不如死的生活。


更美丽清纯的雪莉一定受过更多的摧残!而上面只是冰山一角,张紫妍还有雪莉的自杀是无力改变韩国男人们的变态的。


像下图这样美丽而又想进入演艺圈的韩国女孩子还很多!而韩国男人们的变态本性将会让他们利用潜规则逼死更多的“雪莉”。



雪莉是死于韩国世界第一的性变态潜规则!她不是第一个,也不是最后一个!

延伸阅读

雪莉尸检结果没有他杀嫌疑

药物反应尚未出结果

16日,韩国警方发布国立科学调查研究院对雪莉进行的尸检结果,表示没有发现外力或他杀致死的痕迹。

昨日下午,京畿城南水井警察署为了查清雪莉的死亡原因及死亡时间申请了验尸令,后委托国立科学调查研究院对雪莉进行验尸。

警方表示,在尸检中没有发现任何外力致死的痕迹,但发现了经常出现在自杀死者身上的痕迹。根据周围人的陈述,认为雪莉死于自杀,但具体的药物反应等结果,预计还需要一段时间才能得出。

14日下午,雪莉被经纪人发现在家中身亡,警方在雪莉位于京畿道城南市的家中进行调查。图片来源:韩媒newsis

此前,雪莉于14日下午三点二十分左右被其经纪人发现在京畿道城南市的家中身亡。经纪人称,13日和雪莉进行了最后一次通电话,随后两人一直没有联系。第二天,经纪人到其家中发现雪莉已经死亡,遂立即报警。警方接到雪莉的死亡申报后,前往现场鉴定并确认死亡事实。

据悉,雪莉生前患有严重抑郁症。目前自杀的具体原委还在调查中。警方当天在现场没有发现遗书,而发现了疑似雪莉亲笔的笔记本。警方透露在笔记本中并未发现近日受到热议的恶评等相关内容。

韩国有望出台“雪莉法”

据韩媒报道,随着韩国歌手兼演员雪莉(25岁)的死亡,韩国国民对恶性留言的批评舆论,日益高涨。


韩国9名议员发起提案,有望出台禁止恶意留言的法律——“雪莉法”。韩国演艺管理协会也表示,将为杜绝恶意评论展开强硬应对。


据报道,16日,9名韩国议员发起提案表示,应该引入“雪莉法”,相关委员会应立即着手审议相关法律。


该发起组织代表发言人表示,以“雪莉之死”为契机,正在展开制定恶意回帖防止法的运动。他认为,“雪莉之死无异于社会他杀”。恶意回帖在政治、社会、文化上已经产生了很多副作用。


同时他还敦促,包括国会科学技术信息广播通信委员会在内的相关委员会,应立即对相关法律进行审议。该发言人表示,“如果再出现第二个、第三个雪莉,政治圈也难逃其咎”。


据悉,在9名韩国议员发起“雪莉法”的同时,世界路文化艺术联合会、No.1演艺人足球队、韩国演艺信息工会、韩国劳总、公务员劳总等100多个团体,以及有过恶意留言经历的艺人同事等200多人,自发参与了该行动。发起仪式将于12月初在韩国国会宪政纪念馆大讲堂举行。


当地时间10月14日下午3时21分左右,韩国女艺人雪莉被其经纪人发现在家中身亡。据悉,此前一天晚上,雪莉经纪人与其进行最后一次通话后,便与雪莉失联。经纪人称,雪莉生前患有严重的抑郁症。


生前,雪莉因为个人情感问题和生活方式等,一直争议不断,网友对她的“恶评”从未停止过。



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Never frown,because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. 别愁眉不展,因为你不知道谁会爱上你的笑容。134. It's easy once you know how. 一旦你明白,就会很简单。135. In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different. 要做到不可替代,就要与众不同。136. I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love than to be a success at something you hate. 宁愿失败地做你爱做的事情,也不要成功地做你恨做的事情。(George Burns) 137. Don't hide. Run! You'll make it to tomorrow. 别躲避,奔跑吧,你就会找到明天。138. Life comes with many challenges.The ones that should not scare us are the ones we can take on and take control of. 生活充满了挑战,唯有勇敢面对并自我掌控,我们才能克服恐惧。(安吉丽娜·朱莉) 139. Life doesn't just happen to you; you receive everything in your life based on what you've given. 一切发生在你身上的都不是碰巧。你获得什么,在于你付出了什么。140.You are more beautiful than you think. 你,要比你想象的更美丽。141. Throughout life's complications, you should maintain such a sense of elegance. 不管生活有多不容易,你都要守住自己的那一份优雅。142. When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on so long in the first place. 每当你想要放弃的时候,就想想是为了什么才一路坚持到现在。143. Enjoy your youth.You'll never be younger than you are at this very moment. 好好享受青春,你再也不会有哪个时刻会比此时更年轻了。144. You'd better bring, cause I'll bring every I've got it. 你最好全神贯注,因为我定会全力以赴!145. Take time to enjoy the simple things in life. 慢慢享受生活中的简单。146. As long as you are still alive, you will definitely encounter the good things in life. 只要活着就一定会遇上好事。147. Hold on, it gets better than you know. 挺住,事情会比你想像中要好!148. If you are fine,the sun will always shine. 你若安好,便是晴天。149. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. 磨难会让你更强大。150. Every life deserves our respect. 每一个生命都应该被尊重。151. The best feeling in the world is when you know your heart is smiling. 世间最美好的感受,就是发现自己的心在笑。152. Don't ever underestimate the heart of a champion. 永远不要低估一颗冠军的心。(Rudy Tomjanovich) 153. There is nothing permanent except change. 唯一不变的是变化。154. The difference between successful persons and others is that they really act. 成功者和其他人最大的区别就是,他们真正动手去做了。155. Don't follow the crowd, let the crowd follow you. 不要随波逐流,要引领潮流。(Margaret Thatcher) 156. People pay in advance for a coffee meant for someone who cannot afford a warm beverage. 人们提前买咖啡,让付不起的人享受温暖。157. No one is born a genius.Just keep on doing what you like and that itself is a talent. 哪有什么天才!坚持做你喜欢的事情,这本身就是一种天赋。(大野智) 158. The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only one page. 世界是一本书,不旅行的人只读了其中一页。159. You can create something more glorious than the championship. 你可以创造比冠军更荣耀的事。160. You never get a second chance to make a first impression. 永远没有第二次机会,给人留下第一印象。161. You can always be a worse version of "him", or better version of yourself. 你不是要做一个单纯优秀的人,而是要做一个不可替代的人。162. Give every day the chance to become the most beautiful day of your life. 让每一天都有机会成为你人生中最美好的一天。163. Honesty is the best policy. 做人以诚信为本。164. To a crazy ship all winds are contrary. 对于一只漫无目标的船而言,任何方向的风都是逆风。165. The outer world you see is a reflection of your inner self. 你看到什么样的世界,你就拥有什么样的内心。166. Strike while the iron is hot. 趁热打铁。167. Knowing what you cannot do is far more important than knowing what you are capable of. 知道自己不能做什么远比知道自己能做什么重要。168. People cry, not because they're weak. It's because they've been strong for too long. 哭泣,不代表脆弱,只因坚强了太久。169. Don't let yesterday use up too much of today. 别留念昨天了,把握好今天吧。(Will Rogers) 170. If you are not brave enough, no one will back you up. 你不勇敢,没人替你坚强。171. If you don't build your dream, someone will hire you to build theirs. 如果你没有梦想,那么你只能为别人的梦想打工。172. Beauty is all around, if you just open your heart to see. 只要你给自己机会,你会发现你的世界可以很美丽。173. The difference in winning and losing is most often...not quitting. 赢与输的差别通常是--不放弃。(华特·迪士尼) 174. I am ordinary yet unique. 我很平凡,但我独一无二。175. I like people who make me laugh in spite of myself. 我喜欢那些让我笑起来的人,就算是我不想笑的时候。176. Image a new story for your life and start living it. 为你的生命想一个全新剧本,并去倾情出演吧!177. I'd rather be a happy fool than a sad sage. 做个悲伤的智者,不如做个开心的傻子。178. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. 未来属于那些相信梦想之美的人。(埃莉诺·罗斯福) 179. Even if you get no applause, you should accept a curtain call gracefully and appreciate your own efforts. 即使没有人为你鼓掌,也要优雅的谢幕,感谢自己的认真付出。180. Don't let dream just be your dream. 别让梦想只停留在梦里。181. A day without laughter is a day wasted. 没有笑声的一天是浪费了的一天。(卓别林) 182. Travel and see the world; afterwards, you will be able to put your concerns in perspective. 去旅行吧,见的世面多了,你会发现原来在意的那些结根本算不了什么。183. The key to acquiring proficiency in any task is repetition. 任何事情成功关键都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》 184. You can be happy no matter what. 开心一点吧,管它会怎样。185. A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow. 今天的好计划胜过明天的完美计划。186. Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'! 一切皆有可能!“不可能”的意思是:“不,可能。”(奥黛丽·赫本) 187. Life isn't fair, but no matter your circumstances, you have to give it your all. 生活是不公平的,不管你的境遇如何,你只能全力以赴。188. No matter how hard it is, just keep going because you only fail when you give up. 无论多么艰难,都要继续前进,因为只有你放弃的那一刻,你才输了。189. It requires hard work to give off an appearance of effortlessness. 你必须十分努力,才能看起来毫不费力。190. Life is like riding a bicycle.To keep your balance,you must keep moving. 人生就像骑单车,只有不断前进,才能保持平衡。(爱因斯坦) 191. Be thankful for what you have.You'll end up having more. 拥有一颗感恩的心,最终你会得到更多。192. Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. 美是一种内心的感觉,并反映在你的眼睛里。(索菲亚·罗兰) 193. Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows. 朋友的作用,就是让你快乐加倍,痛苦减半。194. When you long for something sincerely, the whole world will help you. 当你真心渴望某样东西时,整个宇宙都会来帮忙。     When Paul Jobs was mustered out of the Coast Guard after World War II, he made a wager with his crewmates. They had arrived in San Francisco, where their ship was decommissioned, and Paul bet that he would find himself a wife within two weeks. He was a taut, tattooed engine mechanic, six feet tall, with a passing resemblance to James Dean. But it wasn’t his looks that got him a date with Clara Hagopian, a sweet-humored daughter of Armenian immigrants. It was the fact that he and his friends had a car, unlike the group she had originally planned to go out with that evening. Ten days later, in March 1946, Paul got engaged to Clara and won his wager. It would turn out to be a happy marriage, one that lasted until death parted them more than forty years later. Paul Reinhold Jobs had been raised on a dairy farm in Germantown, Wisconsin. Even though his father was an alcoholic and sometimes abusive, Paul ended up with a gentle and calm disposition under his leathery exterior. After dropping out of high school, he wandered through the Midwest picking up work as a mechanic until, at age nineteen, he joined the Coast Guard, even though he didn’t know how to swim. He was deployed on the USS General M. C. Meigs and spent much of the war ferrying troops to Italy for General Patton. His talent as a machinist and fireman earned him commendations, but he occasionally found himself in minor trouble and never rose above the rank of seaman. Clara was born in New Jersey, where her parents had landed after fleeing the Turks in Armenia, and they moved to the Mission District of San Francisco when she was a child. She had a secret that she rarely mentioned to anyone: She had been married before, but her husband had been killed in the war. So when she met Paul Jobs on that first date, she was primed to start a new life. Like many who lived through the war, they had experienced enough excitement that, when it was over, they desired simply to settle down, raise a family, and lead a less eventful life. They had little money, so they moved to Wisconsin and lived with Paul’s parents for a few years, then headed for Indiana, where he got a job as a machinist for International Harvester. His passion was tinkering with old cars, and he made money in his spare time buying, restoring, and selling them. Eventually he quit his day job to become a full-time used car salesman. Clara, however, loved San Francisco, and in 1952 she convinced her husband to move back there. They got an apartment in the Sunset District facing the Pacific, just south of Golden Gate Park, and he took a job working for a finance company as a “repo man,” picking the locks of cars whose owners hadn’t paid their loans and repossessing them. He also bought, repaired, and sold some of the cars, making a decent enough living in the process. There was, however, something missing in their lives. They wanted children, but Clara had suffered an ectopic pregnancy, in which the fertilized egg was implanted in a fallopian tube rather than the uterus, and she had been unable to have any. So by 1955, after nine years of marriage, they were looking to adopt a child. Like Paul Jobs, Joanne Schieble was from a rural Wisconsin family of German heritage. Her father, Arthur Schieble, had immigrated to the outskirts of Green Bay, where he and his wife owned a mink farm and dabbled successfully in various other businesses, including real estate and photoengraving. He was very strict, especially regarding his daughter’s relationships, and he had strongly disapproved of her first love, an artist who was not a Catholic. Thus it was no surprise that he threatened to cut Joanne off completely when, as a graduate student at the University of Wisconsin, she fell in love with Abdulfattah “John” Jandali, a Muslim teaching assistant from Syria. Jandali was the youngest of nine children in a prominent Syrian family. His father owned oil refineries and multiple other businesses, with large holdings in Damascus and Homs, and at one point pretty much controlled the price of wheat in the region. His mother, he later said, was a “traditional Muslim woman” who was a “conservative, obedient housewife.” Like the Schieble family, the Jandalis put a premium on education. Abdulfattah was sent to a Jesuit boarding school, even though he was Muslim, and he got an undergraduate degree at the American University in Beirut before entering the University of Wisconsin to pursue a doctoral degree in political science. In the summer of 1954, Joanne went with Abdulfattah to Syria. They spent two months in Homs, where she learned from his family to cook Syrian dishes. When they returned to Wisconsin she discovered that she was pregnant. They were both twenty-three, but they decided not to get married. Her father was dying at the time, and he had threatened to disown her if she wed Abdulfattah. Nor was abortion an easy option in a small Catholic community. So in early 1955, Joanne traveled to San Francisco, where she was taken into the care of a kindly doctor who sheltered unwed mothers, delivered their babies, and quietly arranged closed adoptions. Joanne had one requirement: Her child must be adopted by college graduates. So the doctor arranged for the baby to be placed with a lawyer and his wife. But when a boy was born—on February 24, 1955—the designated couple decided that they wanted a girl and backed out. Thus it was that the boy became the son not of a lawyer but of a high school dropout with a passion for mechanics and his salt-of-the-earth wife who was working as a bookkeeper. Paul and Clara named their new baby Steven Paul Jobs. When Joanne found out that her baby had been placed with a couple who had not even graduated from high school, she refused to sign the adoption papers. The standoff lasted weeks, even after the baby had settled into the Jobs household. Eventually Joanne relented, with the stipulation that the couple promise—indeed sign a pledge—to fund a savings account to pay for the boy’s college education. There was another reason that Joanne was balky about signing the adoption papers. Her father was about to die, and she planned to marry Jandali soon after. She held out hope, she would later来源:小兵说天下

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