战狼文化误国误民

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疫情过后，不管我们愿意不愿意，我们必将迎来改革开放42年来最大的外部挑战，挑战的结果，既取决于欧美日，也取决于我们对待世界的态度和方式方法。

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任正非近日在接受南华早报采访时称，华为生存下来的唯一措施是向一切先进的老师学习，狭隘的民族感情和民粹主义会导致我们落后。华为对此持完全开放的态度，20多万员工没有一句反美的口号。

当此之际，战狼遍地，杂音喧嚣。任正非先生提醒，狭隘的民族感情和民粹主义会导致落后，可谓用心良苦。

关于战狼文化，下面分享童大焕的文章：战狼文化误国误民。

战狼文化误国误民

作者：童大焕 来源：大焕点睛城市与房产

【1】

资深外交官、前外交学院党委书记、常务副院长袁南生在接受马国川先生采访时，有一些观点与笔者所见略同，这位外交家认为，这次疫情将改变世界秩序：

“持续了数十年的中国战略机遇期转向一定程度的去中国化时期（逆全球化实质上就是去中国化）；优势互补的国际大分工转为价值观认同的国际合作；WTO、WHO等国际组织很可能趋向于弱化、虚化，美国和盟友有可能另起炉灶，图谋将中国排除在外，以联合国为标志的雅尔塔体系的运转受到挑战。”（袁南生、马国川《疫情改变世界秩序，防止发生战略误判》地中海鱼儿公号2020.4.26）

袁南生特别强调：“走向冷战、中美脱钩的可能性不大，但不能完全排除，不可掉以轻心”，“尤其要防止对美误判，误认为美国已衰落。要看到美国同自身相比仍在发展，并没有衰落。”

袁南生还认为，历史证明，外交被民意所绑架，难免带来灾难性的后果。民众信息越对称、越成熟，越理性，外交空间就越大。

我国成为世界第二大经济体，当然值得自豪，但其实，几千年来，中国是世界上最有资格的第二大经济体。

按照著名世界经济史家安格斯·麦迪森(Angus Maddison)的计算，公元元年中国GDP总量仅次于印度，是世界第二大经济体。当时的印度包括巴基斯坦、克什米尔、孟加拉国、斯里兰卡等。公元1500年明代时中国超过印度，成为世界第一大经济体。但是近代中国被英国超过，直到1900年八国联军侵华时，中国GDP还是世界第二。1927年中国是世界第三（这是邹韬奋说的），1949年下降为第四。2010年中国GDP总量超过日本，再次成为世界第二大经济体。了解这些情况，有助于我们保持清醒的头脑。

【2】

如果我们简单了解一下1949年来的历史，就更知道我们今天的来路，和将来要走的方向：

1949年，GDP总量世界第4（如上）；之后一直到1978年，计划经济让我们倒退到了世界第9。

1978年改革开放，但实际上是农村包产到户等内部小改革，还没有真正对外开放，到1998年，20年时间，GDP总量才上升到世界第7，升了两位。（1949-2018中国总值GDP.人均GDP数据及世界排名http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_49e28fef0102yj0z.html）

1998年城市化重启（算是比较大的改革之一，标志是城市住房商品化），2001年入世（对外开放、融入世界重要标志），到2010年，短短12年（1998年算起）或9年（2001年算起）时间，GDP总量上升到了第2，又上升了5位。

但即使我们的GDP总量已是世界第二，人均GDP还排在70名之后。

数字很直观，让我们清晰地看到，对外开放融入世界和内部市场化改革，是经济社会进步的根本原因。

【3】

数字很枯燥，生活更直观。

改革开放30周年之际，中央党校周天勇教授在《学习时报》发表的《三十年前我们为什么要选择改革开放》告诉我们：

1948年，中国人均GDP排世界各国第40位，到了1978年中国人均GDP排倒数第2位，仅是印度人均GDP的2/3。从人民生活水平看，1976年全国农村每个社员从集体分得的收入只有63.3元；1977年全国有1.4亿人平均口粮在300斤以下，处于半饥饿状态；1978年全国有2.5亿绝对贫困人口。

据世界权威的经济增长学家麦迪森研究计算，1952年到1978年中国GDP的实际平均增长率只有4.7%。整个国家和人民的发展和生活水平，大多数发展和生活指标排在世界国家和地区170位以外，处于联合国有关部门和世界银行等组织划定的贫困线之下。

回首当年，如果没有三十年以来的发展道路的调整，没有三十年来对一大二公和计划经济的低效率体制的改革，如果不对外开放学习国外先进的技术和管理知识及经验，我们今天的经济和社会发展水平，毫无疑问，仍然会处在世界最贫穷国家的行列。

【4】

前事不忘，后事之师。

上述历史经验教训告诉我们：一个国家要倒退是很容易的。二三十年时间可以倒退到世界最落后国家行列。

现在，财富逻辑发生变化，如果倒退，速度会更快。

因为，随着科学技术的飞速发展，能源、交通、通信成本大幅度降低，传统的物质生产迅速退居到财富的非主流地位，在世界总财富中的占比不会超过20%，而科技进步和法律、金融、咨询、管理、文化艺术等成为财富的主流。

而后者，需要的是越来越大范围的世界合作、良好的法治与自由保障。而这，恰恰是我们的短板。

当我们的战狼文化大行其道，当我们的民族主义情绪为世界老二沾沾自喜的时候，有可能，巨大的危险已经悄悄逼近。疫情，只不过将这种危险迅速放大了。

【5】

2020年4月22日上午，任正非在深圳华为总部接受《龙》杂志总编辑专访，对中国当下的两大焦点问题，任先生一语中的：

目前，我国大量中低端制造业都在向泰国越南等国家转移，美国又在打压我国的高科技产业，中国制造业正处于中间层，一定是很困难的，不能有太多的幻想。

小溪浪花飞溅，总归是小溪；大江大河，静水潜流，力量很大。长江就是最好的无为而治，不管你管不管它，都不废江河万古流。

【6】

任先生这个小溪与大河的比喻，明眼人一看便知有特指，指的就是当下甚嚣尘上的战狼文化，口炮横飞的民族主义。

但是，它再喧嚣，也改变不了小溪的本质。还常常自我迷惑，自设与国际交流与合作的障碍。

真正的大江大海，静水流深，却力大无穷。

我们当下，在很多时候，推行的外交文化就是战狼文化。也不知道是战狼外交裹胁了内地民族主义，还是民族主义裹胁了战狼外交，或者，两者之间互相激荡。

有人说得好，战狼外交眼高手低，既不懂在国际舞台如何与普通民众沟通，也不明白国际话语权不是靠“以谤止谤”就能够争取到的。（相蓝欣）

希望外交部门、决策层多多请任正非、马云这样懂新经济，有国际视野的一线、跨国企业家，去给他们普及新财富知识和观念，用信息时代的新财富观念，战胜农业时代的战狼文化，才有利于我们更好地融入世界，而不是被世界所排挤。

【7】

中国开始真正告别农业时代，是1998年以后的事情，所以，大部分人头脑仍停留在农业时代，情有可原。

但是引领社会进步的政治、经济和文化精英，头脑不应该停留在农业时代。

1949年以来，70年时间，中国一路走来，曲曲折折，跌跌撞撞，我们60后这一代，算是最幸运的一代，但是，我们的父辈，直到四五十岁，还处在半饥饿状态。直到2001年入世以后，才真正迎来“潮平两岸阔，风正一帆悬”的时代。

我们不应该忘记来之不易的幸福，我们更不应该忘记父辈的努力与艰辛。

疫情过后，不管我们愿意不愿意，我们必将迎来改革开放42年来最大的外部挑战，挑战的结果，既取决于欧美日，也取决于我们对待世界的态度和方式方法。

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When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on so long in the first place. 每当你想要放弃的时候，就想想是为了什么才一路坚持到现在。143. Enjoy your youth.You'll never be younger than you are at this very moment. 好好享受青春，你再也不会有哪个时刻会比此时更年轻了。144. You'd better bring, cause I'll bring every I've got it. 你最好全神贯注，因为我定会全力以赴！145. Take time to enjoy the simple things in life. 慢慢享受生活中的简单。146. As long as you are still alive, you will definitely encounter the good things in life. 只要活着就一定会遇上好事。147. Hold on, it gets better than you know. 挺住，事情会比你想像中要好！148. If you are fine,the sun will always shine. 你若安好，便是晴天。149. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. 磨难会让你更强大。150. Every life deserves our respect. 每一个生命都应该被尊重。151. The best feeling in the world is when you know your heart is smiling. 世间最美好的感受，就是发现自己的心在笑。152. Don't ever underestimate the heart of a champion. 永远不要低估一颗冠军的心。(Rudy Tomjanovich) 153. There is nothing permanent except change. 唯一不变的是变化。154. The difference between successful persons and others is that they really act. 成功者和其他人最大的区别就是，他们真正动手去做了。155. Don't follow the crowd, let the crowd follow you. 不要随波逐流，要引领潮流。(Margaret Thatcher) 156. People pay in advance for a coffee meant for someone who cannot afford a warm beverage. 人们提前买咖啡，让付不起的人享受温暖。157. No one is born a genius.Just keep on doing what you like and that itself is a talent. 哪有什么天才！坚持做你喜欢的事情，这本身就是一种天赋。(大野智) 158. The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only one page. 世界是一本书，不旅行的人只读了其中一页。159. You can create something more glorious than the championship. 你可以创造比冠军更荣耀的事。160. You never get a second chance to make a first impression. 永远没有第二次机会，给人留下第一印象。161. You can always be a worse version of "him", or better version of yourself. 你不是要做一个单纯优秀的人，而是要做一个不可替代的人。162. Give every day the chance to become the most beautiful day of your life. 让每一天都有机会成为你人生中最美好的一天。163. Honesty is the best policy. 做人以诚信为本。164. To a crazy ship all winds are contrary. 对于一只漫无目标的船而言，任何方向的风都是逆风。165. The outer world you see is a reflection of your inner self. 你看到什么样的世界，你就拥有什么样的内心。166. Strike while the iron is hot. 趁热打铁。167. Knowing what you cannot do is far more important than knowing what you are capable of. 知道自己不能做什么远比知道自己能做什么重要。168. People cry, not because they're weak. It's because they've been strong for too long. 哭泣，不代表脆弱，只因坚强了太久。169. Don't let yesterday use up too much of today. 别留念昨天了，把握好今天吧。(Will Rogers) 170. If you are not brave enough, no one will back you up. 你不勇敢，没人替你坚强。171. If you don't build your dream, someone will hire you to build theirs. 如果你没有梦想，那么你只能为别人的梦想打工。172. Beauty is all around, if you just open your heart to see. 只要你给自己机会，你会发现你的世界可以很美丽。173. The difference in winning and losing is most often...not quitting. 赢与输的差别通常是--不放弃。(华特·迪士尼) 174. I am ordinary yet unique. 我很平凡，但我独一无二。175. I like people who make me laugh in spite of myself. 我喜欢那些让我笑起来的人，就算是我不想笑的时候。176. Image a new story for your life and start living it. 为你的生命想一个全新剧本，并去倾情出演吧！177. I'd rather be a happy fool than a sad sage. 做个悲伤的智者，不如做个开心的傻子。178. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. 未来属于那些相信梦想之美的人。(埃莉诺·罗斯福) 179. Even if you get no applause, you should accept a curtain call gracefully and appreciate your own efforts. 即使没有人为你鼓掌，也要优雅的谢幕，感谢自己的认真付出。180. Don't let dream just be your dream. 别让梦想只停留在梦里。181. A day without laughter is a day wasted. 没有笑声的一天是浪费了的一天。(卓别林) 182. Travel and see the world; afterwards, you will be able to put your concerns in perspective. 去旅行吧，见的世面多了，你会发现原来在意的那些结根本算不了什么。183. The key to acquiring proficiency in any task is repetition. 任何事情成功关键都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》 184. You can be happy no matter what. 开心一点吧，管它会怎样。185. A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow. 今天的好计划胜过明天的完美计划。186. Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'! 一切皆有可能！“不可能”的意思是：“不，可能。”(奥黛丽·赫本) 187. Life isn't fair, but no matter your circumstances, you have to give it your all. 生活是不公平的，不管你的境遇如何，你只能全力以赴。188. No matter how hard it is, just keep going because you only fail when you give up. 无论多么艰难，都要继续前进，因为只有你放弃的那一刻，你才输了。189. It requires hard work to give off an appearance of effortlessness. 你必须十分努力，才能看起来毫不费力。190. Life is like riding a bicycle.To keep your balance,you must keep moving. 人生就像骑单车，只有不断前进，才能保持平衡。(爱因斯坦) 191. Be thankful for what you have.You'll end up having more. 拥有一颗感恩的心，最终你会得到更多。192. Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. 美是一种内心的感觉，并反映在你的眼睛里。(索菲亚·罗兰) 193. Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows. 朋友的作用，就是让你快乐加倍，痛苦减半。194. When you long for something sincerely, the whole world will help you. 当你真心渴望某样东西时，整个宇宙都会来帮忙。     When Paul Jobs was mustered out of the Coast Guard after World War II, he made a wager with his crewmates. They had arrived in San Francisco, where their ship was decommissioned, and Paul bet that he would find himself a wife within two weeks. He was a taut, tattooed engine mechanic, six feet tall, with a passing resemblance to James Dean. But it wasn’t his looks that got him a date with Clara Hagopian, a sweet-humored daughter of Armenian immigrants. It was the fact that he and his friends had a car, unlike the group she had originally planned to go out with that evening. Ten days later, in March 1946, Paul got engaged to Clara and won his wager. It would turn out to be a happy marriage, one that lasted until death parted them more than forty years later. Paul Reinhold Jobs had been raised on a dairy farm in Germantown, Wisconsin. Even though his father was an alcoholic and sometimes abusive, Paul ended up with a gentle and calm disposition under his leathery exterior. After dropping out of high school, he wandered through the Midwest picking up work as a mechanic until, at age nineteen, he joined the Coast Guard, even though he didn’t know how to swim. He was deployed on the USS General M. C. Meigs and spent much of the war ferrying troops to Italy for General Patton. His talent as a machinist and fireman earned him commendations, but he occasionally found himself in minor trouble and never rose above the rank of seaman. Clara was born in New Jersey, where her parents had landed after fleeing the Turks in Armenia, and they moved to the Mission District of San Francisco when she was a child. She had a secret that she rarely mentioned to anyone: She had been married before, but her husband had been killed in the war. So when she met Paul Jobs on that first date, she was primed to start a new life. Like many who lived through the war, they had experienced enough excitement that, when it was over, they desired simply to settle down, raise a family, and lead a less eventful life. They had little money, so they moved to Wisconsin and lived with Paul’s parents for a few years, then headed for Indiana, where he got a job as a machinist for International Harvester. His passion was tinkering with old cars, and he made money in his spare time buying, restoring, and selling them. Eventually he quit his day job to become a full-time used car salesman. Clara, however, loved San Francisco, and in 1952 she convinced her husband to move back there. They got an apartment in the Sunset District facing the Pacific, just south of Golden Gate Park, and he took a job working for a finance company as a “repo man,” picking the locks of cars whose owners hadn’t paid their loans and repossessing them. He also bought, repaired, and sold some of the cars, making a decent enough living in the process. There was, however, something missing in their lives. They wanted children, but Clara had suffered an ectopic pregnancy, in which the fertilized egg was implanted in a fallopian tube rather than the uterus, and she had been unable to have any. So by 1955, after nine years of marriage, they were looking to adopt a child. Like Paul Jobs, Joanne Schieble was from a rural Wisconsin family of German heritage. Her father, Arthur Schieble, had immigrated to the outskirts of Green Bay, where he and his wife owned a mink farm and dabbled successfully in various other businesses, including real estate and photoengraving. He was very strict, especially regarding his daughter’s relationships, and he had strongly disapproved of her first love, an artist who was not a Catholic. Thus it was no surprise that he threatened to cut Joanne off completely when, as a graduate student at the University of Wisconsin, she fell in love with Abdulfattah “John” Jandali, a Muslim teaching assistant from Syria. Jandali was the youngest of nine children in a prominent Syrian family. His father owned oil refineries and multiple other businesses, with large holdings in Damascus and Homs, and at one point pretty much controlled the price of wheat in the region. His mother, he later said, was a “traditional Muslim woman” who was a “conservative, obedient housewife.” Like the Schieble family, the Jandalis put a premium on education. Abdulfattah was sent to a Jesuit boarding school, even though he was Muslim, and he got an undergraduate degree at the American University in Beirut before entering the University of Wisconsin to pursue a doctoral degree in political science. In the summer of 1954, Joanne went with Abdulfattah to Syria. They spent two months in Homs, where she learned from his family to cook Syrian dishes. When they returned to Wisconsin she discovered that she was pregnant. They were both twenty-three, but they decided not to get married. Her father was dying at the time, and he had threatened to disown her if she wed Abdulfattah. Nor was abortion an easy option in a small Catholic community. So in early 1955, Joanne traveled to San Francisco, where she was taken into the care of a kindly doctor who sheltered unwed mothers, delivered their babies, and quietly arranged closed adoptions. Joanne had one requirement: Her child must be adopted by college graduates. So the doctor arranged for the baby to be placed with a lawyer and his wife. But when a boy was born—on February 24, 1955—the designated couple decided that they wanted a girl and backed out. Thus it was that the boy became the son not of a lawyer but of a high school dropout with a passion for mechanics and his salt-of-the-earth wife who was working as a bookkeeper. Paul and Clara named their new baby Steven Paul Jobs. When Joanne found out that her baby had been placed with a couple who had not even graduated from high school, she refused to sign the adoption papers. The standoff lasted weeks, even after the baby had settled into the Jobs household. Eventually Joanne relented, with the stipulation that the couple promise—indeed sign a pledge—to fund a savings account to pay for the boy’s college education. There was another reason that Joanne was balky about signing the adoption papers. Her father was about to die, and she planned to marry Jandali soon after. She held out hope, she would later来源：小兵说天下

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