一生中爱你最深的男人,不是爱人,不是儿子,而是……
BEIJING, Nov. 6 (Xinhua) -- China will firmly adhere to opening-up and the principle of multilateralism to push for the in-depth development of globalization, Chinese Premier Li Keqiang said on Tuesday.
Li made the remarks when holding the third "1+6" Roundtable with leaders of major international economic and financial institutions in Beijing.
When talking about the current global economic situation, Premier Li said the world has come at a cross road and faces a historical choice.
"We believe multilateralism is the only way to achieve prosperity and inclusive growth, and the trend of globalization should not be reversed," he said.
He also said that China is willing to strengthen communication and consultation with all parties to accommodate the interests of countries of different development stages and groups of different income levels.
China firmly supports multilateralism and opposes unilateralism and protectionism, and will work with other countries to promote economic globalization toward a more open, inclusive, universally beneficial, balanced and win-win direction, and jointly build an open world economy, Li said.
Full Text: Joint Press Release of the Third "1+6" Roundtable
BEIJING, Nov. 6 (Xinhua) -- China will firmly adhere to opening-up and the principle of multilateralism to push for the in-depth development of globalization, Chinese Premier Li Keqiang said on Tuesday.
Li made the remarks when holding the third "1+6" Roundtable with leaders of major international economic and financial institutions in Beijing.
When talking about the current global economic situation, Premier Li said the world has come at a cross road and faces a historical choice.
"We believe multilateralism is the only way to achieve prosperity and inclusive growth, and the trend of globalization should not be reversed," he said.
He also said that China is willing to strengthen communication and consultation with all parties to accommodate the interests of countries of different development stages and groups of different income levels.
China firmly supports multilateralism and opposes unilateralism and protectionism, and will work with other countries to promote economic globalization toward a more open, inclusive, universally beneficial, balanced and win-win direction, and jointly build an open world economy, Li said.
Full Text: Joint Press Release of the Third "1+6" Roundtable
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前几天,在网上看到这样一张动图,被感动哭了:
画面里是一位父亲,在灾难中失去了双腿和半个左臂。一层层的石阶小道,是唯一一条通往回家的路,而他的旁边,是走路尚不稳的小女儿。他不忍心让女儿自己爬坡,扶了一下帽子,一把抱起女儿,扛在肩上。
用残留的半截左臂护着怀里的宝贝,再用唯一完整的右臂,支撑着自己和女儿的全部重量。
艰难而又平稳地,一阶一阶往上爬。
动图传到网上,立即引来大批网友转发。
并且纷纷评论道:
可能这就是父亲吧。
能拥有这样的父亲,即使残疾,自己的一生也都会被爱护。
父亲的爱总是这样伟大,而我们常常又像那个小女孩一样,太过天真,从未感知。
看完网友的话,我不禁想起,之前很火的一部电视剧《归去来》。
在剧中,王志文和罗晋的一对父子对手戏让人印象深刻,又潸然泪下。
面对儿子从小到大的不理解,在父子分别之际,王志文意味深长地说道:
“每一位受过挫折,吃过苦挨过累的父亲,都会天真地希望他的孩子,能够免于生活的困苦,无忧无虑的度过一生。”
那一刻,罗晋泪崩。
年少只知慈母爱,中年方懂严父恩。
经济学家杨格有一句名言:
“男人最是铁石心肠,但只要当了父亲,就会有一颗温柔的心。”
也是在长大成人以后,我们才知道,父亲,那个一生倔强坚强的男人,原来始终怀揣着人世间最温柔的爱。
而就是这份爱,却常常被我们误解。
UC曾在前几年发布过一条数据报告:在情人节、儿童节、母亲节和父亲节这四个节日中,父亲节的关注度最低。
儿童节和母亲节的关注度分别是父亲节的5.3倍和3.4倍。而情人节的关注度,是父亲节的7.1倍。
很多时候,“不被重视”的爸爸拼命来找存在感,却又被我们“拒之门外”。
网易云曾在去年底,拍摄过一个音乐短片,刷爆了网络。
而选择的歌曲,并不是超级明星所演唱,也不是所有人都耳熟能详,它只是一首朴实无华,记录了一件小事的感人歌曲——《父亲写的散文诗》。
在视频中,主角甜甜是一个在外工作的年轻人,为应付工作,她在电话里告诉父母,今年过年不回家了。
而电话另一端,却传来了父亲突发胃出血的消息,她抛开工作,马不停蹄的赶了回去。
刚赶到医院,还没来得及见父亲一眼,就被堵在了手术室门外,她只能在医院走廊里,等待未知的手术结果。
而就在等待时,她才意识到,自己已经一年没回家,更是一年多没有见过父亲,从不知父亲身体变得这么糟糕。
满怀愧疚,她回忆起了那个昨天还坚强刚毅的父亲。
她想起高中那年,自己非要参加同学聚会,父亲顶着风雨给她送外套;
她想起上大学那年,父亲把她送到学校,然后又一个人坐火车回去;
她想起工作那年,父亲千里迢迢赶来看望她,却也没能和她说上几句话。
那时的父亲神通广大,无所不能,但时间只过了几年,自己还没长大,父亲却一下子变老了。
更让自己无法接受的是,这些年来,自己从未好好爱过父亲,更是对父亲给自己的爱,置之不理。
而故事中的女孩正是我们每个人,觉得自己还在慢慢长大,还在肆意挥霍父亲的爱,父亲却在不知不觉中,加速的老去。
《诗经》中说:蓼蓼者莪,匪莪伊蔚,哀哀父母,生我劳瘁。
父亲的爱,就像偷偷记录在日记本里的散文诗,我们看不见,却无时无刻不存在着,保护着我们。
曾国藩说:
在“孝悌”两字上用功,勿使祖父母、父母无一时不安乐,无一日不顺适。
父亲的爱总如湖水般波澜不惊,潭水般深不见底,在我们长大后,又像潮水一般悄悄退去。
2015年,歌手李健在《中国新闻周刊》发表了一篇纪念父亲的文章,其中有这样一段对于父亲的描述:
“爸爸永远见到我,就是问声身体好不好,最近好不好什么的。他不会深层次地去问你最近的什么苦恼什么的,不会像母女那样谈心什么的,这个不会的。”
李健的话,让我想起了自己的父亲。
大学之前,我一直与父亲生活在一起,那时我与他的话便不多。
大学四年,我有事总给母亲打电话,心情不好,也只找母亲诉苦。
前后四年下来,与父亲的所有通话,也不到10次。
也是在那时,我以为父亲是个自私的人,从不会像母亲一样,时时牵挂我的生活与安危。
而意外的是,毕业后,我一个人来北京闯荡,父亲的关心突然多了起来,隔三差五就要和我视频。
不止在微信上分享给我我所在行业的新闻资讯,还常在里面穿插一些,关于注意身体,合理休息的消息。
那时我才从母亲口中得知,原来这些年,父亲一直都很关心我。
以往给家里打电话,接电话的虽是母亲,父亲却在一旁指指点点,总想插话。
缺生活费时,打钱的虽是母亲,出钱的又催促快点打过来钱的,却是父亲。
进入职场后,工作忙了,和家里的联系也少了,父亲再也克制不住对我的关心,开始主动给我打电话。
那时我才幡然醒悟,自己对父亲的误解,已持续了二十多年。
这个五一假期原本打算和朋友一起去南方旅行,车票都已买好。
而就在前几天,从姐姐口中得知,已年近五十的父亲最近身体状态不太好。
我在一刹那之间,就做出了回家的决定,也在三分钟之内,改签了回家的火车票。
因为改签太晚,只抢到了夜里十一点多发车,行程十多个小时的一张站票。
而比起父亲这么多年无声的爱,站一夜,根本不值一提。
《淮南子》曰:“慈父之爱子,非为报也。”
为了儿女们的成长,他心甘情愿独自去承受生活中所有的苦难,甚至来自子女们持续多年的误解。
父亲是这世上最温柔的人,也是最孤独的人。
作家耳根曾经说过:
“父爱,与母爱完全不同,他更含蓄,更无言,如山一样。
你幼年去看,他是你的保护神;
少年去看,他似乎变成了阻挡你眼睛的障碍;
青年时,或许你会觉得,他变矮了,你认为你已比他高;
可中年时,当你再次去看那座山,你会忽然发现:他一直都在那里,一直都在默默地看着自己的骄傲,狂妄,自私,以及狭隘,他都在包容,无声无息地包容。”
在歌曲《父亲写的散文诗》里,有这样一句歌词:
想一想未来我老成了一堆旧纸钱,那时的女儿一定会美得惊艳。
有个爱她的男人要娶她回家,可想到这些我却不忍看她一眼。
在每一位父亲眼里,儿女都是掌中宝,口中珠。
他们的爱总是沉甸甸却又沉默,总是如山一般厚重却又无言。
一生所有爱我们的人中,经历最多风雨的是父亲,得到最少传颂的也是父亲。
满身泥泞的是父亲,将儿女呵护进心底的也是父亲。
沉默寡言的是父亲,对儿女的误解百般隐忍的也是父亲。
一生不长,多给这个伟大的男人一些体谅和关心,千万别让那份终将实现的和解,来的太晚。
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BEIJING, Nov. 6 (Xinhua) -- China will firmly adhere to opening-up and the principle of multilateralism to push for the in-depth development of globalization, Chinese Premier Li Keqiang said on Tuesday.
Li made the remarks when holding the third "1+6" Roundtable with leaders of major international economic and financial institutions in Beijing.
When talking about the current global economic situation, Premier Li said the world has come at a cross road and faces a historical choice.
"We believe multilateralism is the only way to achieve prosperity and inclusive growth, and the trend of globalization should not be reversed," he said.
He also said that China is willing to strengthen communication and consultation with all parties to accommodate the interests of countries of different development stages and groups of different income levels.
China firmly supports multilateralism and opposes unilateralism and protectionism, and will work with other countries to promote economic globalization toward a more open, inclusive, universally beneficial, balanced and win-win direction, and jointly build an open world economy, Li said.
Full Text: Joint Press Release of the Third "1+6" Roundtable
BEIJING, Nov. 6 (Xinhua) -- China will firmly adhere to opening-up and the principle of multilateralism to push for the in-depth development of globalization, Chinese Premier Li Keqiang said on Tuesday.
Li made the remarks when holding the third "1+6" Roundtable with leaders of major international economic and financial institutions in Beijing.
When talking about the current global economic situation, Premier Li said the world has come at a cross road and faces a historical choice.
"We believe multilateralism is the only way to achieve prosperity and inclusive growth, and the trend of globalization should not be reversed," he said.
He also said that China is willing to strengthen communication and consultation with all parties to accommodate the interests of countries of different development stages and groups of different income levels.
China firmly supports multilateralism and opposes unilateralism and protectionism, and will work with other countries to promote economic globalization toward a more open, inclusive, universally beneficial, balanced and win-win direction, and jointly build an open world economy, Li said.
Full Text: Joint Press Release of the Third "1+6" Roundtable