苏曼噶旺仁波切 | 思维诸行无常,帮助我们克服生活中的障碍
我们的日常生活中可能会出现许多难题。在如此多的问题当中,我们会发现,其中有某些问题,已经超越了我们的能力,以致于无法靠自己来解决它。因此,我们不仅应该深入内心探索,同时也应该向外寻求其他可以帮助我们的人的建议。
重要的是,我们必须了解哪些问题对我们的日常生活影响最大,这样我们才能优先处理这些重大问题。接着,我们可能会发现其中某些问题并不容易克服,在这样情况下,我们必须学习如何在生活中与这些不便共存。
例如,有些人搬了新家,却发现他们所处的新环境,旁边的邻居并不友善。像这类的问题,通常不会在一夜之间就能获得解决。而且,我们必须因此而学会能够忍受生活中的某些不适。
在这些时刻,思维「诸行无常」的佛教观对我们会有帮助,帮助我们克服日常生活中的障碍。即便我们无法解决所有的问题,我们仍然可以营造一种生活方式,使生活不仅更易于管理,而且还可以利益他人。
There can be so many issues that arise in our daily lives. With so many problems we find that some of them are beyond our own ability to solve effectively. Thus we should not only look deep within, but also look to the advice of others who can assist us. Importantly, we have to understand which issues have the most detrimental effects on our daily life so that we can prioritize and deal with these major issues first. And, then we might find that some of these issues cannot easily be overcome and in these cases, we have to learn how to wisely live within these inconvenient situations. For example, some people move into a new house only to discover that they are now living next to difficult neighbors. This type of problem is usually not solved overnight. And, so we have to learn to be able to live with certain discomforts in our life. At these times it is good to reflect on the Buddhist idea that all things are impermanent. This will help us manage these everyday hurdles of life so that even when we are unable to resolve all our problems we can still have an approach to life that will make living not only more manageable but can also be of benefit to others.
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