【不离】法王如意宝：因业力的嘲弄，母亲今生忘记了我……
尽量像对待母亲一样原谅怨敌
Forgive Your Enemy as You Would Forgive Your Own Mother
不管是什么样的怨敌，哪怕他再伤害我们，我们也不应生起嗔心，
No matter who our enemies are and no matter how they’ve harmed us, we should not bear anger toward them.
而要尽量把他观成自己的母亲，修慈悲心。
Instead, as much as possible, we should visualize them as our own mothers and cultivate compassion and loving-kindness toward them.
佛教中有充足的依据可以证明：无始以来，轮回中的每一个众生，都曾当过我的母亲。
It is taught widely in Buddhist texts that since beginningless time, every living being in samsara has been our mother,
她们含辛茹苦地哺育我，尽最大的爱心来照顾我，将自己最珍贵的全部给我……
who endured all kinds of hardships to nurture us, cared for us with the greatest love, and gave us everything that she held dear.
这些母亲们对我恩重如山，
We owe a debt of gratitude as weighty as a mountain to these mothers of the past.
但因业力的嘲弄，她今生已经忘记了我，甚至成了我的怨敌。
Yet by the cruel trick of karma, they no longer remember us in this lifetime and have even become our enemies.
若不是这样身不由己，她又何尝愿意把痛苦施加在我的身上？
If it were in our mother’s power, she could not possibly wish to cause us suffering.
想当初我生病时，母亲不管我的行为多么粗暴蛮横，都任劳任怨、嘘寒问暖，百般慈爱地呵护我。
Think back to a time when you were ill, and tell yourself, “No matter how rude and unreasonable my behavior, my mother showed the greatest concern and tended me lovingly in many ways, without any complaint.
而今，母亲因长时漂泊于难忍的轮回苦海中，不幸得了“病”，已不认识我了。
Yet today, because she has been drifting for so long in the unbearably bitter sea of samsara, she is unfortunately ‘ill’ and no longer recognizes me.
对于无有依怙的她，我又岂能因为一点点伤害，就把她当成不共戴天的敌人？
Now that she has nothing and no one to rely on, how could I, because of some slight hurt, treat her as a deadly enemy?”
所以，当怨敌损害我们时，我们应当这样观想，
When enemies harm us, we should visualize them in this way.
不但不能对他恨之入骨、想要报复，
We should cease to hate them virulently and to seek revenge.
还应从内心中真切地发愿：
We should also sincerely make this wish from our heart:
祈求上师三宝加持，愿他早日获得安乐，永远脱离苦海！
May the guru and the Three Jewels bless them, and may they soon find peace, happiness, and eternal liberation from the sea of suffering.
敬摘录 法王如意宝《不离》
His Holiness Jigme Phuntsok Rinpoche 《Always Present》
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