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方方被威胁,要以一个“好大的罪名”调查!

雨中红莲 2020-08-17

方方被威胁,

有人叫嚣要以“颠覆国家政权罪”调查!


有一些所谓的学者叫兽在疯狂地撕咬。


北大博士王诚:



方方的回应:



北大教授张颐武:


有个专门写疫情日记的作家,现在到处批评质疑这些写作的人,说他们如何阴暗,暗示他们受人指使,有个什么匿名的高中生如何愚昧等等。坦诚地说,为什么人们对她的这些写作不信任,就是由于在疫情严重的时期在日记中用描写的手法,用纪实的文字抛出的那个殡仪馆一地手机的照片,这据说是被医生朋友发给她的照片。这引起了广泛的关注和传播,也是日记最引人瞩目的事情。

大家在质疑这件事,在问是否有这张照片,就一直根本不敢面对,推三推四,到处说有人想迫害她。但其实最关键是作家应该有最起码的求真之心,不能丧失做人的底线,不能用编造来欺骗天真相信她的读者,而且在这么关键的时刻,这么关键的事情上面的编造是绝对不能容忍的,是没有良知的,是一个作家一生永远的羞耻。


方方的回应:


看张教授的文字,我是知道他是没有看过日记的,莫非看的是有人专门提供的摘要?而且是按他的口味提供的摘要?像这句“有个什么匿名的高中生如何愚昧”,这话显然我是没有说过。还有,张教授说:“为什么人们对她的这些写作不信任”。张教授所说的这些“人们”是多少人?就是围绕着张教授身边的那些吗?张教授就没有看到信任我的人是多少?如果按张教授的方式作论断,那我差不多没有看到一个信任张教授的人哦,无论文坛,或是学界。而且,还有“用编造来欺骗天真相信她的读者”这样断然的语言,张教授是不是也编造得太生猛了一点?不过,张教授编造一向很猛。夸赞周小平是中国的如何好青年时,张教授用的也是非常生猛并且还相当热烈的言词,夸得好像周小平比张教授更适合在北大任教。其实张教授喜好按自己的萎琐之心揣测他人,亏也是吃过的。当年张教授揣测一位著名作家的小说是“模仿”,不也输得鼻子不是鼻子脸不是脸吗?

而照片的事,我已经在另外一天的记录里,说得很清楚了。可惜,张教授没有看我写了什么。其实张教授大可到武汉了解一下当时的真实情况:了解当时的每日死亡人数有多少,了解尸体由医院到火葬场的流程,了解死者的遗物去向,了解医院和火葬场当时处在什么样的情况下,了解锂电池不能烧但也来不及消毒时的处理方式,甚至还可以了解全国有多少家火葬场前来支援武汉,诸如此类。这些话,我只能说到这里。张教授以及各位愿意理解就理解,不愿意理解,你们随便。照片我相信有一天大家会看到,但不是我拿出来,是照片的主人拿出来。我是真的建议张教授亲自到武汉来实地调查,当然,顺便说一句,这些事都是发生在早期阶段,并非后期,也非现在。张教授了解到真实情况后,再来斩钉截铁地作出结论恐怕符合北大的水平一点。那样,教起学生来,家长们多少也会放心。

今天就到这里。我还要重复一句:极左就是中国祸国殃民式的存在。改革开放如果毁在了这些人手里,是我们这代人的耻辱。来吧,把你们所有的招数都拿出来,把你们背后的大牌都喊出来。你看我怕不怕你们!


“察网”齐建华:


方方写的是一部恶意满满的《封城日记》。


方方回应:


我在这里先要发一声警告:齐先生,你骂我没有问题,但你涉嫌造谣和构陷了。我建议你自己最好删除并公开道歉。如你不删除不道歉,我将通过法律手段来解决。包括“察网”,你天天发表骂我的文章,都没问题。但你刊登齐建华这种公开造谣和构陷的文章,不管你有多大的背景,不管有多大的官为你撑腰,不管你的后台有多么强大,我自然是要连你一并告的。中国是法治社会,我容你们恶意骂我,是我的宽容,毕竟这只是你们的品质问题。但如造谣和构陷,则涉嫌违法。在此,特提醒“察网”和齐建华先生:请自己搞定自己,不然法庭上见!

君不见,武汉马上开城。我虽已退休,但是打场官司的精力还是有的。


方方终于把“带头大哥”

按在地上摩擦摩擦

作者:小睡睡、峭宇 来源:头脑大国  


随着疫情在我国逐渐进入尾声,方方也越战越勇,如果要说这次疫情除了给大家造成了许多损失之外还有什么新价值诞生,那我觉得方方被人们认可就是最大的价值。 


尤其是今天的方方日记,我的感触就是——东风终于压倒了西风。哎,就像林忆莲那首歌里唱到的: 


“我们好不容易,我们身不由己。” 


真是不容易啊,这几年来在文坛呼风唤雨的那几个垃圾货色,一个个要么尖嘴猴腮还被称为“暖男”,要么一肚子坏水满嘴谎话还被称为“正能量”,要在早些年里文坛气场还正常的时候,根本轮不到这些龟孙子上场的,可不知道是因为谁瞎了眼,居然把他们几个捧上了天,大伙天天就只能看着这几个撒谎高手、带节奏的骗子胡说八道,忍着要呕吐的冲动还不能明着怼他们,不然没有好果子吃。 


所以稍有点正义感、稍有点才华和理性的作者,这几年来过得挺憋气的,看着那几个跳梁小丑戴着面具天天蹦跶,直到这两月来方方这个老将出马,终于力挽狂澜,算是正本清源了,——说真话、讲理、有良知的人终于重新占据了舞台中央,而且还把那些小丑们按倒在地上使劲摩擦摩擦了一下,原本张牙舞爪狐假虎威的他们居然一时间全都武功尽废,毫无还手之力。 


其实我之前都不太听说那个张教授是谁,原先根本不算一根葱啊,可是从方方今天的日记里我才知道居然还算得上是小丑派里的“带头大哥”,这么个在名校里的教授按理说虽然良心肯定是坏了点,但是眼睛应该不会太瞎才对,可是他居然能如此放下身段——也可以说是不要脸或者毫无节操地和人工饲养海鲜的小年轻称兄道弟,着实让人大跌眼镜。 


写撒谎文章是为了骗别人,如果连自己都骗了那真是没话说了,我实在不相信张教授会真心地欣赏小暖男的才华,只能是因为想献媚、想向某些贵人靠拢的强烈渴求使然,可是按方方今天日记里说的——张教授总是看走眼,站错地方,所以,这帮垃圾其实本来智商和学识都不高的,只能说他们的好运气已经花完了,现在该到了打回原形的时候了。 


说到花光好运气的人,其实还不止张教授一人,还有更多的蠢货也在这场疫情中原形毕露了,他们也同样是耗尽了好运气的人,之前没有这场疫情,很多事情容易忽悠、容易对付,再加上大伙也都是习惯了好说话的,一般没有什么要紧事就都睁只眼闭只眼,但是这次疫情来的太突然,冲击力和冲击范围都史无前例的大,已经威胁到许多人的身家性命的这个当口,毕竟是会吓醒许多人的。 


被吓醒也好,被惊醒也好,大伙缓过神了就会重新思考许多问题,重新选择许多方向,再也不能稀里糊涂地沿袭着之前好说话的习惯了,毕竟惯坏了不少坏人,这些坏人占尽便宜本来也没事,闷声占便宜就行了,可是越惯他们就越不懂事,直到最终忘乎所以不办人事终于惹恼了大伙,再加上各种麻烦事越来越严峻,他们本来智商就余额不足,疫情终于成了压垮骆驼的最后一刻稻草。 


所以,表面上是方方一个人火了,其实是无数个有良知有正义感有勇气的人选择了方方作为反击的渠道,方方之所以能一直站着发声,是她身后有成千上万没机会发声的勇士在支撑着。 


本来这篇的标题我是想写“张教授连几个高中生都不如”,可还是后来想想,这样写其实是玷污了高中生们,因为据说那篇《几个高中生给另一名高中生的信》的作者真的是几个高中生,看过这篇文章的人无不被这几位高中生的逻辑、理性、觉悟、社会责任感、正确的三观所折服,大多都欣慰地感觉“终于看到了希望”,所以,张教授除了不知道怎么熬到手的“教授”头衔之外,完全没有一项能比得上这几位高中生作者的。 


方方日记《你看我怕不怕你们!》最后一段话尤其让人解气又提气,她宣示着真实与谎言、正义与卑劣之间的厮杀已经进入刺刀见红的贴身肉搏阶段,硝烟散尽后,一个新的时代即将开启。



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If you want something done, do it yourself. 靠谁都不如靠自己。《第五元素》 104. Life is a wonderful journey. Make it your journey and not someone else's. 生命是一段精彩旅程,要活的有自己的样子,而不是别人的影子。105. No matter how many mistakes you make or how slowly you progress, you are already ahead of those who never tried. 无论你犯了多少错,或者进步得有多慢,你都走在了那些不曾尝试的人的前面。106. Some things are so important that they force us to overcome our fears. 总有些更重要的事情,赋予我们打败恐惧的勇气。107. Say to yourself: "No matter how many obstacles I encounter in life, I will do all that I can to complete the whole course." 请对自己说:无论生活之路上会遇到多少障碍,我会竭尽所能地跑完这一程。108. No cross, no crown. 不经历风雨,怎么见彩虹。109. Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value. 与其努力成功,不如努力成为有价值的人。(爱因斯坦) 110. Remember when life's path is steep to keep your mind even. 记住:当人生很苦逼的时候,你要保持淡定。111. If you're brave enough to say GOODBYE, life will reward you with a new HELLO. 只要你勇敢地说出再见,生活一定会给你一个新的开始。112. Sometimes the right path is not the easiest one. 对的那条路,往往不是最好走的。113. Just trust yourself, then you will know how to live. 只要相信自己,你就会懂得如何去生活。114. In life it's not where you go. It's who you travel with. 生命中,重要的不是你去哪里,而是与谁同行。115. Life is like a rainbow. You don't always know what's on the other side, but you know it's there. 生活像一道彩虹,你不知道另一端通向哪里,但你会知道,它总是在那里。116. When the world says,"Give up!"Hope whispers,"Try it one more time." 当全世界都在说“放弃”的时候,希望却在耳边轻轻地说:“再试一次吧”!117. I don't care about other questions and I just try to be myself. 我不在乎别人的质疑,我只会做好自己。118. Attempt doesn't necessarily bring success, but giving up definitely leads to failure. 努力不一定成功,但放弃一定失败!119. The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today. 对明天最好的准备就是今天做到最好。120. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart. 你已经一无所有,没有什么道理不顺心而为。(乔布斯) 121. Life is a journey, one that is much better traveled with a companion by our side. 人生是一场旅程,我们最好结伴同行。122. Sometimes you have to fall before you can fly. 有时候,你得先跌下去,才能飞起来。123. 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Never frown,because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. 别愁眉不展,因为你不知道谁会爱上你的笑容。134. It's easy once you know how. 一旦你明白,就会很简单。135. In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different. 要做到不可替代,就要与众不同。136. I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love than to be a success at something you hate. 宁愿失败地做你爱做的事情,也不要成功地做你恨做的事情。(George Burns) 137. Don't hide. Run! You'll make it to tomorrow. 别躲避,奔跑吧,你就会找到明天。138. Life comes with many challenges.The ones that should not scare us are the ones we can take on and take control of. 生活充满了挑战,唯有勇敢面对并自我掌控,我们才能克服恐惧。(安吉丽娜·朱莉) 139. Life doesn't just happen to you; you receive everything in your life based on what you've given. 一切发生在你身上的都不是碰巧。你获得什么,在于你付出了什么。140.You are more beautiful than you think. 你,要比你想象的更美丽。141. Throughout life's complications, you should maintain such a sense of elegance. 不管生活有多不容易,你都要守住自己的那一份优雅。142. When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on so long in the first place. 每当你想要放弃的时候,就想想是为了什么才一路坚持到现在。143. Enjoy your youth.You'll never be younger than you are at this very moment. 好好享受青春,你再也不会有哪个时刻会比此时更年轻了。144. You'd better bring, cause I'll bring every I've got it. 你最好全神贯注,因为我定会全力以赴!145. Take time to enjoy the simple things in life. 慢慢享受生活中的简单。146. As long as you are still alive, you will definitely encounter the good things in life. 只要活着就一定会遇上好事。147. Hold on, it gets better than you know. 挺住,事情会比你想像中要好!148. If you are fine,the sun will always shine. 你若安好,便是晴天。149. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. 磨难会让你更强大。150. Every life deserves our respect. 每一个生命都应该被尊重。151. The best feeling in the world is when you know your heart is smiling. 世间最美好的感受,就是发现自己的心在笑。152. Don't ever underestimate the heart of a champion. 永远不要低估一颗冠军的心。(Rudy Tomjanovich) 153. There is nothing permanent except change. 唯一不变的是变化。154. The difference between successful persons and others is that they really act. 成功者和其他人最大的区别就是,他们真正动手去做了。155. Don't follow the crowd, let the crowd follow you. 不要随波逐流,要引领潮流。(Margaret Thatcher) 156. People pay in advance for a coffee meant for someone who cannot afford a warm beverage. 人们提前买咖啡,让付不起的人享受温暖。157. No one is born a genius.Just keep on doing what you like and that itself is a talent. 哪有什么天才!坚持做你喜欢的事情,这本身就是一种天赋。(大野智) 158. The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only one page. 世界是一本书,不旅行的人只读了其中一页。159. You can create something more glorious than the championship. 你可以创造比冠军更荣耀的事。160. You never get a second chance to make a first impression. 永远没有第二次机会,给人留下第一印象。161. You can always be a worse version of "him", or better version of yourself. 你不是要做一个单纯优秀的人,而是要做一个不可替代的人。162. Give every day the chance to become the most beautiful day of your life. 让每一天都有机会成为你人生中最美好的一天。163. Honesty is the best policy. 做人以诚信为本。164. To a crazy ship all winds are contrary. 对于一只漫无目标的船而言,任何方向的风都是逆风。165. The outer world you see is a reflection of your inner self. 你看到什么样的世界,你就拥有什么样的内心。166. Strike while the iron is hot. 趁热打铁。167. Knowing what you cannot do is far more important than knowing what you are capable of. 知道自己不能做什么远比知道自己能做什么重要。168. People cry, not because they're weak. It's because they've been strong for too long. 哭泣,不代表脆弱,只因坚强了太久。169. Don't let yesterday use up too much of today. 别留念昨天了,把握好今天吧。(Will Rogers) 170. If you are not brave enough, no one will back you up. 你不勇敢,没人替你坚强。171. If you don't build your dream, someone will hire you to build theirs. 如果你没有梦想,那么你只能为别人的梦想打工。172. Beauty is all around, if you just open your heart to see. 只要你给自己机会,你会发现你的世界可以很美丽。173. The difference in winning and losing is most often...not quitting. 赢与输的差别通常是--不放弃。(华特·迪士尼) 174. I am ordinary yet unique. 我很平凡,但我独一无二。175. I like people who make me laugh in spite of myself. 我喜欢那些让我笑起来的人,就算是我不想笑的时候。176. Image a new story for your life and start living it. 为你的生命想一个全新剧本,并去倾情出演吧!177. I'd rather be a happy fool than a sad sage. 做个悲伤的智者,不如做个开心的傻子。178. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. 未来属于那些相信梦想之美的人。(埃莉诺·罗斯福) 179. Even if you get no applause, you should accept a curtain call gracefully and appreciate your own efforts. 即使没有人为你鼓掌,也要优雅的谢幕,感谢自己的认真付出。180. Don't let dream just be your dream. 别让梦想只停留在梦里。181. A day without laughter is a day wasted. 没有笑声的一天是浪费了的一天。(卓别林) 182. Travel and see the world; afterwards, you will be able to put your concerns in perspective. 去旅行吧,见的世面多了,你会发现原来在意的那些结根本算不了什么。183. The key to acquiring proficiency in any task is repetition. 任何事情成功关键都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》 184. You can be happy no matter what. 开心一点吧,管它会怎样。185. A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow. 今天的好计划胜过明天的完美计划。186. Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'! 一切皆有可能!“不可能”的意思是:“不,可能。”(奥黛丽·赫本) 187. Life isn't fair, but no matter your circumstances, you have to give it your all. 生活是不公平的,不管你的境遇如何,你只能全力以赴。188. No matter how hard it is, just keep going because you only fail when you give up. 无论多么艰难,都要继续前进,因为只有你放弃的那一刻,你才输了。189. It requires hard work to give off an appearance of effortlessness. 你必须十分努力,才能看起来毫不费力。190. Life is like riding a bicycle.To keep your balance,you must keep moving. 人生就像骑单车,只有不断前进,才能保持平衡。(爱因斯坦) 191. Be thankful for what you have.You'll end up having more. 拥有一颗感恩的心,最终你会得到更多。192. Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. 美是一种内心的感觉,并反映在你的眼睛里。(索菲亚·罗兰) 193. Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows. 朋友的作用,就是让你快乐加倍,痛苦减半。194. When you long for something sincerely, the whole world will help you. 当你真心渴望某样东西时,整个宇宙都会来帮忙。     When Paul Jobs was mustered out of the Coast Guard after World War II, he made a wager with his crewmates. They had arrived in San Francisco, where their ship was decommissioned, and Paul bet that he would find himself a wife within two weeks. He was a taut, tattooed engine mechanic, six feet tall, with a passing resemblance to James Dean. But it wasn’t his looks that got him a date with Clara Hagopian, a sweet-humored daughter of Armenian immigrants. It was the fact that he and his friends had a car, unlike the group she had originally planned to go out with that evening. Ten days later, in March 1946, Paul got engaged to Clara and won his wager. It would turn out to be a happy marriage, one that lasted until death parted them more than forty years later. Paul Reinhold Jobs had been raised on a dairy farm in Germantown, Wisconsin. Even though his father was an alcoholic and sometimes abusive, Paul ended up with a gentle and calm disposition under his leathery exterior. After dropping out of high school, he wandered through the Midwest picking up work as a mechanic until, at age nineteen, he joined the Coast Guard, even though he didn’t know how to swim. He was deployed on the USS General M. C. Meigs and spent much of the war ferrying troops to Italy for General Patton. His talent as a machinist and fireman earned him commendations, but he occasionally found himself in minor trouble and never rose above the rank of seaman. Clara was born in New Jersey, where her parents had landed after fleeing the Turks in Armenia, and they moved to the Mission District of San Francisco when she was a child. She had a secret that she rarely mentioned to anyone: She had been married before, but her husband had been killed in the war. So when she met Paul Jobs on that first date, she was primed to start a new life. Like many who lived through the war, they had experienced enough excitement that, when it was over, they desired simply to settle down, raise a family, and lead a less eventful life. They had little money, so they moved to Wisconsin and lived with Paul’s parents for a few years, then headed for Indiana, where he got a job as a machinist for International Harvester. His passion was tinkering with old cars, and he made money in his spare time buying, restoring, and selling them. Eventually he quit his day job to become a full-time used car salesman. Clara, however, loved San Francisco, and in 1952 she convinced her husband to move back there. They got an apartment in the Sunset District facing the Pacific, just south of Golden Gate Park, and he took a job working for a finance company as a “repo man,” picking the locks of cars whose owners hadn’t paid their loans and repossessing them. He also bought, repaired, and sold some of the cars, making a decent enough living in the process. There was, however, something missing in their lives. They wanted children, but Clara had suffered an ectopic pregnancy, in which the fertilized egg was implanted in a fallopian tube rather than the uterus, and she had been unable to have any. So by 1955, after nine years of marriage, they were looking to adopt a child. Like Paul Jobs, Joanne Schieble was from a rural Wisconsin family of German heritage. Her father, Arthur Schieble, had immigrated to the outskirts of Green Bay, where he and his wife owned a mink farm and dabbled successfully in various other businesses, including real estate and photoengraving. He was very strict, especially regarding his daughter’s relationships, and he had strongly disapproved of her first love, an artist who was not a Catholic. Thus it was no surprise that he threatened to cut Joanne off completely when, as a graduate student at the University of Wisconsin, she fell in love with Abdulfattah “John” Jandali, a Muslim teaching assistant from Syria. Jandali was the youngest of nine children in a prominent Syrian family. His father owned oil refineries and multiple other businesses, with large holdings in Damascus and Homs, and at one point pretty much controlled the price of wheat in the region. His mother, he later said, was a “traditional Muslim woman” who was a “conservative, obedient housewife.” Like the Schieble family, the Jandalis put a premium on education. Abdulfattah was sent to a Jesuit boarding school, even though he was Muslim, and he got an undergraduate degree at the American University in Beirut before entering the University of Wisconsin to pursue a doctoral degree in political science. In the summer of 1954, Joanne went with Abdulfattah to Syria. They spent two months in Homs, where she learned from his family to cook Syrian dishes. When they returned to Wisconsin she discovered that she was pregnant. They were both twenty-three, but they decided not to get married. Her father was dying at the time, and he had threatened to disown her if she wed Abdulfattah. Nor was abortion an easy option in a small Catholic community. So in early 1955, Joanne traveled to San Francisco, where she was taken into the care of a kindly doctor who sheltered unwed mothers, delivered their babies, and quietly arranged closed adoptions. Joanne had one requirement: Her child must be adopted by college graduates. So the doctor arranged for the baby to be placed with a lawyer and his wife. But when a boy was born—on February 24, 1955—the designated couple decided that they wanted a girl and backed out. Thus it was that the boy became the son not of a lawyer but of a high school dropout with a passion for mechanics and his salt-of-the-earth wife who was working as a bookkeeper. Paul and Clara named their new baby Steven Paul Jobs. When Joanne found out that her baby had been placed with a couple who had not even graduated from high school, she refused to sign the adoption papers. The standoff lasted weeks, even after the baby had settled into the Jobs household. Eventually Joanne relented, with the stipulation that the couple promise—indeed sign a pledge—to fund a savings account to pay for the boy’s college education. There was another reason that Joanne was balky about signing the adoption papers. Her father was about to die, and she planned to marry Jandali soon after. She held out hope, she would later来源:小兵说天下

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