【双语阅读】 《欢乐颂2》告诉你：房子在爱情中究竟占多大分量？

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【双语阅读】《欢乐颂2》告诉你：房子在爱情中究竟占多大分量？

2017-06-17 微英语在线

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导读:在《欢乐颂》中，樊胜美因为王百川没有将自己名字写在房产证上而大发脾气，网友纷纷热议到底该如何正确处理房子和爱情的关系。

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Would you get irritated if your boyfriend declines to put your name on the house ownership certificate?
如果你的男朋友拒绝把你的名字写在房产证上，你会生气吗？
In one episode of the popular drama Ode to Joy 2, Fan Shengmei bursts into a public argument with her boyfriend Wang Baichuan because he refused to add her name on the property ownership certificate.
在《欢乐颂》第二季的一集中，樊胜美突然和男友王百川公开争吵，起因是王百川拒绝将樊胜美的名字写在房产证上。
This has caused a stir in cyberspace because this scenario echoes with phoenix men and women who hail from poor areas and successfully blend in mega-cities but struggle to keep a foothold there. Phoenix women have sacrificed a great deal just to help their partner’s career. In Fan’s case, she accompanied Wang during his most difficult time and even pulled some strings to save his company. This also explains why so many viewers scold Wang for being heartless.
这在网民间引起了热议，因为这一情景正反映了那些来自贫困地区、成功融入大城市、但却仍然难站稳脚跟的凤凰男/凤凰女的情况。为了帮助伴侣的事业，凤凰女牺牲了很多。在樊胜美这件事中，她在王百川最困难的时候一直陪伴着他，还牺牲了很多来拯救他的公司，这也是为什么许多观众指责王百川无情无义的原因。
However, the down payment all comes from Wang’s parents’ savings, ignorance of their opinion is selfish. Furthermore, his mother’s concern about Fan’s heavy family burden does not come from nowhere, which can rationalize Wang’s decision to only write his own name for the time being.
但是，房子首付都是王百川父母的积蓄，无视他们的意见就太自私了。此外，王百川母亲对樊胜美沉重家庭负担的担忧并非空穴来风，这就给王百川暂时在房产证上只写自己名字提供了正当理由。
Arguing about whose fault it is has never been my intention here, and I appreciate this drama because its popularity can show the increasing visibility of women in our society.
但是在这里争论谁是谁非并非我的本意，而且我本人非常喜欢这部剧，因为这部剧受到欢迎正说明女性在我们社会越来越受到重视。
On the other hand, the TV series has sparked a reflection on the house issue between love birds. The incident mentioned here reveals that there remain many women who hold on to traditional mindsets and pin their happiness on their husband-to-be. In a time when gender equality is widely advocated, ladies should take the responsibility for their own tomorrow, those presented by others are blessings that we can appreciate but should always refrain from expecting.
另一方面，这部剧也在情侣之间引发了对房子问题的思考。这里提到的事件表明，许多女性仍然坚持传统的示威模式，将自己的幸福和未来的丈夫绑在一起。在这个提倡两性平等的时代，女人们应该为自己的将来承担起责任，别人给与的东西我们可以欣然接受，但是永远不要心怀期待。
Love, in its true sense, should be built on an equal footing, which means the two should share the pressure and joy together. Transferring pressure to a loved one would make it shaky and doomed. Phoenix men nowadays are actually faced with a heavier burden put out by the expectancy from the families of both sides, girlfriends and society. Either saving for the house together or listening to the payer is the decision we ought to make.
真正意义上的爱情，应该是建立在平等的基础之上，这意味着两个人应该一起承担压力、分享快乐。把压力转移给爱人，只会让爱情摇摇欲坠、注定失败。事实上，现如今凤凰男们面临着来自双方家庭、女朋友和社会的期望所造成的沉重负担。我们要么应该一起存钱买房，要么就让出钱买房的人做决定。
After all, love is force of nature, not a hunt for material security.
毕竟，爱情是自然的力量，而不是为了追求物质安全。