旅行才是了解一个人的最佳途径?
“I have found out that there ain't no surer way to find out whether you like people or hate them than to travel with them.” — Mark Twain
旅行是消除人们之间仇恨和无知的最好方法—— 马克.吐温
旅行不仅仅是到一个新城市去豪华酒店度假、点点外卖,走马观花的拍几张景点或纪念碑合照,然后就回家。这样还不如舒舒服服待在家里,不要出门旅行呢!其实旅行是一种体验,更是一种经历。
在旅行途中,你会去感受一座全新的城市,了解和欣赏这座城市的文化和底蕴。在未知的城市中,你可以去品尝当地的小吃和美食。当你放下一起真实生活中的压力,行走在陌生的城市街道上,你就会发现一个全新的自己。
因此旅行不仅是一种发现自我的好方法,也是了解一个人的最佳途径。普特君可从来不胡说,我们可是有这么多的理由来说服你!学霸可是从来只用事实说话哦!
They have their walls down!
只有在旅行中人们才会打破自己的常规,展现真实的自我
They are out of their mundane setting. When a person gets stuck in a routine, their natural stimuli dies. They get up everyday and do the same thing, over and over again! But when you take someone out of their routine, you get to see their true self. Carefree and full of passion!
人们只有在旅行中才会放下生活中那些琐碎无趣的例行公事。在生活中当一个人被自己的这些例行公事所困住,人们的自然及天性就会慢慢消磨殆尽,人们会开始年复一年的重复着同样的生活。但是人们一旦有机会脱离这些无聊的日常,他们就会做自己想做的事情,展现真实的自我。因此我们常常能看到旅行中的人们总是无忧无虑又充满激情。
You get to see how adventurous they are.
只有在旅行中你才会看到人们的勇气和冒险精神
Basically, you get to see if they are open to experiencing something they haven’t done before. Do you remember that scene from ZNMD, where the character of Imraan (played by Farhan Akhtar) was extremely afraid to jump out of the plane for skydiving? But then he overcame his fear and jumped, and it got him closer to his friends who knew that he defeated one of his greatest fears that day.
基本上人们在旅途中往往会去挑战一些以前从未做过的事情。比如在宝莱坞电影《潇洒走一回》中的主角 Imraan 对于空中跳伞极度恐惧,但是之后他战胜了自己的恐惧完成了跳伞,也因此拉近了与好朋友之间的距离。因为他的朋友也了解到他能够打败自己的恐惧是一件多么伟大的事情。
You get to see how they react to meeting new people.
在旅行中你会看到一个人与陌生人如何相处
The way a person reacts after meeting someone new tells a lot about their personality. When you’ll travel together with them, you’ll meet all kind of people and you both will develop relations which will strengthen your chemistry.
一个人如何与陌生人相处以及如何与人交朋友可以充分反映出这个人的个性和态度。当你在旅途中碰到一个善于和陌生人相处,乐于与人交朋友的人,那么无疑你们的人生中从此以后又多了一位知己。
You both will get a LOT of leisure time together.
只有在旅行中你们才会真正享受一段美好而惬意的时光
Sometimes you don’t know what to talk until you start talking. When both of you will be in a relaxed state of mind and will have a lot of time to get to know each other, there will be so many unsaid aspects of your life that’ll come out.
在生活中我们常常苦于不知道如何和别人真正的交流。但是当人们在旅行中身心会进入一种完全放松的状态,因此人们就会有更多的时间和精力去彼此交流和了解。你可能会遇到许多生活中见不到的有趣的人和事儿。
You observe their little habits and quirks which define them.
在旅行中人们的个性会暴露无遗,尤其是那些小习惯和怪癖
Life is…the messy bits. Little habits matter and it just shows the quirks and uniqueness of the person. How they drink their tea, how they wear different socks on each foot for luck, how they haven’t given up on cargoes, how they can take shots only in even numbers etc.
生活其实就是一堆乱麻。通常来说人们的小习惯和怪癖并无关紧要,它仅仅显示出一个人独一无二的个性。人们怎样喝茶,为了好运而穿不同的袜子,等等都是这样的例子。
You know what songs they like and that says a lot.
旅行常常也会暴露人们的音乐品味
Well, there HAS to be music. While walking, driving, partying, eating…absolutely. If you both have a similar taste, then destiny is playing its cards right. And if you don’t, you never know. You might find a new favourite band.
是的,美妙的旅途怎么能少了音乐呢?!在旅行中音乐简直无处不在,走路、开车、聚会、吃饭时都必不可少啊!如果人们有共同的音乐品味,那一路上简直是欢乐无限。但是如果品味不一样,那也没关系,或许你会跟随人们的脚步发现一支新乐队呢!
You get to see how they react in extreme situations.
只有在旅行中你才会看到人们如何应对极端情况
Extreme happiness, extreme sorrow or extreme panic. A travel experience is not always smooth and comfy. You might face a last minute crisis and how you both manage to get out of it will speak a lot about your bond.
俗话说得好乐极生悲。旅途不会总是一帆风顺,你们很可能会遇到一些意想不到的危机或极端情况,如何应对和处理极端情况则会充分考验你和同伴之间的关系。
You make a lot of memories that just belong to both of you.
只有在旅途中人们会创造一段专属于自己的美好记忆
You associate everything you experienced in that trip to that person. It can be a dish, a concert, a spa, a movie, a celebrity…absolutely anything.
在一个人的旅行中你会经历你曾经梦想的一切,也会遇到许许多多意想不到的东西,留下一段专属于自己的美好回忆。这些回忆可以是一道美食、一场音乐会、一场放松身心的水疗...
You learn to be in comfortable silence around them.
在旅行中人们学会了适时的沉默也是一种放松
You feel the peace of being isolated, with them being around. When you travel with someone, you can’t talk all the time. Hence, if you share a good chemistry, you’ll be at peace and feel meditative even when they are around. This will strengthen your bond more!
在旅途中即使是一个人你也会觉得内心安静平和。当你和同伴一起旅行时,你们也不可能总是在说话。因此即使身边人群环绕,只要你懂得适时的沉默,那你收获的将是内心的安静和平和,而这也是一种身心成长的力量。
You experience the most exhilarating moment of your life with them.
在旅行中人们才会真正经历和体验人生最惊心动魄的时刻
So many people discover themselves on their crazy expeditions. You might too, with them beside you.
许多人会在自己的疯狂之旅中发现自我,而你也也一样,不论是和同伴一起还是一个人的旅行,你都会邂逅一个全新的自己。
我要一个人去东京铁塔看夜景
我要一个人去威尼斯看电影
我要一个人去阳明山上看海芋
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我要一个人去纽约纯粹看雪景
我要一个人去巴黎喝咖啡写信
我要一个人的旅行
一个人 透透气
就像Penny 在《一个人的行李》中的歌词一样,一个人也可以活得精彩。一个人的打包行李,走遍所以曾经梦想要去的地方,做哪些梦想中的事情。两个人幸福不算什么,能够一个人活的自由自在,才是最好的人生状态!
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