我有责任让自己快乐，这是我对自己应负的责任｜Sisy选读

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Not at all easy, but worth trying.

这并非易事，但仍值得一试。

A friend of mine turned 68.

有位朋友过了68岁，

I asked him what's changing?

我问他有何改变？

He sent me following lines：

以下是他的回文:

Yes, I am changing.

喔！有的，我正在改变。

After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children, my friends,now I have started loving myself.

以前我爱父母、手足、配偶、孩子、朋友，但现在我已开始爱我自己。

Yes, I am changing.

是的，我正在改变。

I just realized that I am not “Atlas”. The world does not rest on my shoulders.

我才了解到，我不是阿特拉斯，其实我扛不起整个世界。

Yes, I am changing.

是啊！我正在改变。

I now stopped bargaining with vegetable and fruit vendors. After all, a few dollars more is not going to burn a hole in my pocket but it might help the poor fellow save for his daughter’s school fees.

我不再跟卖菜和卖水果的小贩讨价还价。多付几块钱对我没什么影响，但有可能帮这个穷人存下他女儿的学费。

Yes, I am changing.

是的，我正在改变。

I pay the taxi driver without waiting for the change. The extra money might bring a smile on his face. After all he is toiling much harder for a living than me.

付计程车资时我不再等着司机找零钱，给他点小费或许会换来一个微笑。毕竟他为了生计比我辛苦多了。

Yes, I am changing.

是的，我正在改变。

I stopped telling the elderly that they've already narrated that story many times. After all, the story makes them walk down the memory lane and relive the past.

我不再对老人家说，这个故事你已讲很多次了。 毕竟这个故事让他们重拾回忆，重温往事。

Yes, I am changing.

的确，我正在改变。

I've learnt not to correct people even when I know they are wrong. After all, the onus of making everyone perfect is not on me. Peace is more precious than perfection.

我已学会了不再纠正人们，即使是他们的错。毕竟，让每个人都完美，并非是我的责任。能让事情和平完美更值得珍惜。

Yes, I am changing. 

是的，我正在改变。

I give compliments freely and generously. After all it's a mood enhancer not only for the recipient, but also for me.

我自由且大方地给予赞美。毕竟这不仅让对方心情变好，自己也受益。

Yes, I am changing.

是的，我正在改变。

I've learnt not to bother about a crease or a spot on my shirt. After all, personality speaks louder than appearances.

我学会了不要为我衬衫上的褶痕或斑点而烦恼。毕竟，人格胜于外表。

Yes, I am changing.

是的，我开始在改变。

I walk away from people who don't value me. After all, they might not know my worth, but I do.

我远离那些看不起我的人，毕竟他们不知道我的价值，但我却清楚。

Yes, I am changing.

是的，我正在改变。

I have learnt that it's better to drop the ego than to break a relationship. After all, my ego will keep me aloof whereas with relationships I will never be alone.

我已学会了不要为坚持己见而破坏了关系。毕竟，自我会让我孤身一人，而人际关系让我永不孤单。

Yes, I am changing. 

是的，我正在改变。

I've learnt to live each day as if it's the last. After all, it might be the last .

我已学会把每一天当成最后一天。毕竟，真的有可能是最后一天。

Yes, I am changing.

是的，我正在改变。

I am doing what makes me happy.

我正在做让我快乐的事。

After all, I am responsible for my happiness, and I owe it to me.

毕竟，我有责任让自己快乐，这是我对自己应负的责任。

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