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4:43 I want to play just one animated excerpt from an interview recorded at that original Grand Central Booth. This is 12-year-old Joshua Littman interviewing his mother, Sarah. Josh has Asperger's syndrome. As you may know, kids with Asperger's are incredibly smart but have a tough time socially. They usually have obsessions. In Josh's case, it's with animals, so this is Josh talking with his mom Sarah at Grand Central nine years ago.
5:11(Video) Josh Littman: From a scale of one to 10, do you think your life would be different without animals? Sarah Littman: I think it would be an eight without animals, because they add so much pleasure to life.
5:21JL: How else do you think your life would be different without them?
5:24SL: I could do without things like cockroaches and snakes.
5:27JL: Well, I'm okay with snakes as long as they're not venomous or constrict you or anything.
5:31SL: Yeah, I'm not a big snake person --
5:33JL: But cockroach is just the insect we love to hate.
5:36SL: Yeah, it really is.
5:37JL: Have you ever thought you couldn't cope with having a child?
5:40SL: I remember when you were a baby, you had really bad colic, so you would just cry and cry.
5:45JL: What's colic? SL: It's when you get this stomach ache and all you do is scream for, like, four hours.
5:51JL: Even louder than Amy does?
5:53SL: You were pretty loud, but Amy's was more high-pitched.
5:56JL: I think it feels like everyone seems to like Amy more, like she's the perfect little angel.
6:02SL: Well, I can understand why you think that people like Amy more, and I'm not saying it's because of your Asperger's syndrome, but being friendly comes easily to Amy, whereas I think for you it's more difficult, but the people who take the time to get to know you love you so much.
6:18JL: Like Ben or Eric or Carlos? SL: Yeah --
6:21JL: Like I have better quality friends but less quantity? (Laughter)
6:25SL: I wouldn't judge the quality, but I think -- JL: I mean, first it was like, Amy loved Claudia, then she hated Claudia, she loved Claudia, then she hated Claudia.
6:33SL: Part of that's a girl thing, honey. The important thing for you is that you have a few very good friends, and really that's what you need in life.
6:41JL: Did I turn out to be the son you wanted when I was born? Did I meet your expectations?
6:48SL: You've exceeded my expectations, sweetie, because, sure, you have these fantasies of what your child's going to be like, but you have made me grow so much as a parent, because you think --
6:59JL: Well, I was the one who made you a parent.
7:01SL: You were the one who made me a parent. That's a good point. (Laughter) But also because you think differently from what they tell you in the parenting books, I really had to learn to think outside of the box with you, and it's made me much more creative as a parent and as a person, and I'll always thank you for that.
7:20JL: And that helped when Amy was born?
7:21SL: And that helped when Amy was born, but you are so incredibly special to me and I'm so lucky to have you as my son. (Applause)
7:37David Isay: After this story ran on public radio, Josh received hundreds of letters telling him what an amazing kid he was. His mom, Sarah, bound them together in a book, and when Josh got picked on at school, they would read the letters together. I just want to acknowledge that two of my heroes are here with us tonight. Sarah Littman and her son Josh, who is now an honors student in college. (Applause)
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